Let me defluence you
Let me defluence you. The reasons I don’t post videos daily or in my post is because most of my days are like this and it’s embarrassing. I posted myself cleaning up the kids playroom to set up a nail salon and people were my kids are too old to be this messy and not know how to clean up.
Cleaning up was a trigger for me and I shut down. I did have a cleaning service that so many people recommended but they started to slack and I wanted my family to stop waiting for that day for a day of peace. Then I get burnt out trying to act like my house is tidy all the time and sometimes it is but most times, we are living more that having this structure that I desperately want. One day it’ll be that but for now, my kids are happy, they are glowing, my marriage is thriving, and even if I feel like I’m not, in reality I am. So let this be a reminder that it’s ok to show the messy parts too.
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The thing is, even when everyone helps out….its still not how YOU’D want it cleaned! 🤣