Let me defluence you

Let me defluence you. The reasons I don’t post videos daily or in my post is because most of my days are like this and it’s embarrassing. I posted myself cleaning up the kids playroom to set up a nail salon and people were my kids are too old to be this messy and not know how to clean up.

Cleaning up was a trigger for me and I shut down. I did have a cleaning service that so many people recommended but they started to slack and I wanted my family to stop waiting for that day for a day of peace. Then I get burnt out trying to act like my house is tidy all the time and sometimes it is but most times, we are living more that having this structure that I desperately want. One day it’ll be that but for now, my kids are happy, they are glowing, my marriage is thriving, and even if I feel like I’m not, in reality I am. So let this be a reminder that it’s ok to show the messy parts too.

#rawmotherhood #honestmotherhood #adayinmylife #momlifebelike #momlife #trending #MomsofTiktok

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... Read moreIn today's fast-paced world, many parents often feel overwhelmed by the expectations of keeping a perfect home while raising children. The reality is that most homes, especially those with young kids, experience clutter and chaos. Cleaning services may help initially, but maintaining a tidy space often becomes burdensome. Parents struggle with feelings of inadequacy when comparing themselves to the curated lives portrayed on social media. Yet, it’s important to recognize that these highlights rarely reflect day-to-day realities. It’s perfectly normal to have toys scattered, laundry piled up, and dishes waiting to be washed. The societal pressure to present an immaculate living environment can lead to burnout. The truth is, children thrive in a happy and loving home, regardless of how clean or tidy it is. Instead of focusing on achieving the unattainable perfection, parents should embrace their individual journeys, showing both the well-organized spaces and the messy corners of their homes. Creating a home that fosters happiness and connection can often mean letting go of rigid expectations. Accepting that it’s okay to have a messy house is liberating and allows for authenticity in parenting. Remember, it’s all part of the beautiful chaos of life. By sharing these honest experiences and embracing the challenges, we promote a community that values authenticity over perfection.

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The thing is, even when everyone helps out….its still not how YOU’D want it cleaned! 🤣

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Quite honestly I live alone and there are times my home gets away from me. I think it’s refreshing to see someone being real about what real life looks like. Cause truth is sometimes the laundry sits in the basket waiting to be folded for days and once folded might sit for days before I put it away. Sometimes it is what it is……

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