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Sometimes being heartbroken... doesn't make us vulnerable. But it really brings us back to "love ourselves." 🖤

Used to think of losing someone. It was the biggest loss.

But as time passed... to know that

What disappeared before was "ourselves."

The moment hurts. It's not easy.

There were days when I didn't want to get out of bed.

There's a whole day of thinking, "Where are we wrong?"

But finally... I chose to get up again.

Start taking care of yourself, exercise, sweat flowing.

It's like taking regret away.

I didn't get better today because of anyone.

But better because "I choose myself."

And if anyone is living in the same moment,

I want to say... It's okay.

Gradually getting better at your own pace is enough. 🤍

Returning to love yourself

Probably the best start.

After the most painful ending,

What I want to say to myself every day is that The goal is simple, be better than 🙏🏾🔥

# Heartbroken and come back to love myself # Heartbroken review # lemon 8 diary # Exercise # Love yourself

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... Read moreการอกหักถือเป็นประสบการณ์ที่ทำให้หลายคนรู้สึกเสียใจและสูญเสีย แต่ในหลายกรณี การผ่านช่วงเวลานี้กลับกลายเป็นโอกาสที่ดีในการทำความเข้าใจตัวเองมากขึ้น และสร้างความเข้มแข็งจากภายในใจจริงๆ ประสบการณ์ตรงที่หลายคนแชร์มักจะพูดถึงช่วงเวลาที่รู้สึกท้อแท้ จนถึงขั้นไม่อยากลุกจากเตียง หรือสงสัยว่าผิดตรงไหน การต่อสู้กับความรู้สึกเหล่านี้อาจดูหนักหนาสาหัส แต่ก็เป็นกระบวนการสำคัญที่ทำให้เราได้ตั้งคำถามและค้นพบสิ่งที่แท้จริงว่าเราอยากจะเป็นใคร และเราให้คุณค่ากับตัวเองอย่างไร หนึ่งในวิธีที่ช่วยให้หลายคนเริ่มกลับมามีชีวิตชีวาอีกครั้งคือการหันมาใส่ใจสุขภาพกาย ด้วยการออกกำลังกาย เพราะการเคลื่อนไหวร่างกายไม่เพียงแต่ช่วยปลดปล่อยความเครียด แต่เหงื่อที่ไหลออกมานั้นเสมือนเป็นตัวแทนของการปลดปล่อยความเสียใจและความเจ็บปวดออกไปจากใจเรา สิ่งสำคัญที่สุดคือการเลือกให้ความรักแก่ตัวเองก่อน ไม่ต้องรีบดีขึ้นหรือพยายามเปลี่ยนแปลงตัวเองเพื่อตอบสนองความคาดหวังของผู้อื่น การค่อยๆ ปรับและเรียนรู้ที่จะรักตัวเองในแบบของเรา คือก้าวแรกที่ทรงพลังที่สุด สำหรับใครที่กำลังอยู่ในช่วงเวลานี้ อยากให้เชื่อว่าการฟื้นฟูใจเป็นเรื่องที่เกิดขึ้นได้ในแต่ละวัน และเป้าหมายง่ายๆ ที่ช่วยกระตุ้นใจได้คือ การพยายามเป็นตัวเองที่ดีกว่าเมื่อวาน "The goal is simple be better than yesterday" การอกหักไม่ใช่จุดจบ แต่เป็นโอกาสให้เริ่มต้นใหม่ด้วยความรักและความเข้าใจตัวเองอย่างแท้จริง

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