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うっちぃ｜19年目の言語聴覚士・3児の母
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Graduated from "Eat quickly!." The magic of emptying the plate taught by the 18th year ST.

"I just can't take another bite..."

Thank you for your daily meal battle 🌱

Actually, the last time I posted "Mom's Acting" is the most effective...

This is the "meal scene."

What I'm sure as an eighteen year speech therapist as a mother of three.

It wasn't the "right words" that moved the child, but the "playfulness" of the mom.

The command (obligation) to "eat,"

Change to a sense of victory (play) that "I surprised my mom!"

Just this approach to the brain can dramatically change a child's bite.

The 3 Steps of Magic

① Spoon to mouth "Mom will eat ~"

② Pretending to feed, deliberately "looking away"

③ When you eat it, you will be surprised with "Eh! Nay!"

If you hear "Do it again," Mom wins 🌱

"I was told, 'You can eat it,' 😂"

"This could also be applied to changing clothes!"

Please feel free to let me know in the comments or DM about the reports you've tried and the "parenting troubles" you're having now.

Let's think about how to be "easy" together 🌱

May your parenting be a little easier 🌱

Parenting troubles Speech therapist # period # Education # Parenting Hack

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... Read more毎日の食事時間は、親子にとって楽しみでもありストレスの元にもなりますよね。私も子供との食事で悩んでいた時期がありましたが、この「いたずら心」を活用した方法を試してみて本当に効果を実感しました。 例えば、一口をスプーンに乗せて「ママが食べちゃうよ～」と声をかけつつ、口元に運んだ後、あえてよそ見をして子供が自分で食べる隙を作ります。食べてくれたら大げさに「えー！ナーイ！」と驚くことで、子供は「ママを驚かせた！」という勝利感を味わい、もっとやりたくなるのです。この遊び心を取り入れた声かけは、従来の「食べなさい」という命令とは脳への働きかけが全く違い、拒否反応ではなく自発的な行動を引き出します。 また、このアプローチは食事だけでなく、イヤイヤ期の着替えやお片付けの相談にも応用でき、実際に私も子どもと楽しみながら取り入れています。子育ての現場で「どうしても食べない」「やりたくない」と感じる時こそ、ママの少しの工夫と遊び心で子どもの意欲を引き出せることがとても貴重だと思います。 この方法を知ってから、食事の時間は親子でコミュニケーションを楽しむ機会になり、私も子どもも穏やかな気持ちで向き合えるようになりました。ぜひ、食事バトルに疲れた方は、遊び心で魔法の3ステップを試してみてください。ママの笑顔が増えれば、子育てもグッとラクになるはずです。