my boss just asked me to "hop on a quick call" at 6:47pm on a friday and I made this face. this is the face. the messy bun. the dead eyes. the hoodie that says "Overworked & Underfucked" in my home office at a desk I've been sitting at for eleven hours.

I haven't left this chair since 8am. my back hurts. my eyes are dry. I've had three coffees and no meals. the tissue box next to my monitor is there because I sneezed once in March and now it lives here. everything on this desk has given up. including me.

my friend texted "come out tonight." I'm wearing sweatpants that haven't been washed in a timeline I'm not prepared to share publicly and the last person who saw me outside this apartment was a delivery driver four days ago.

the sweatshirt says what my dating profile can't. what my therapist hinted at. and what my posture has been screaming since tuesday.

if this hoodie is your current mood raise your hand. both of them. because I know you're not using them for anything else right now

5/29 Edited to

... Read moreWorking long hours from a home office can blur the boundaries between personal life and work, leading to feelings of isolation and burnout. I know the struggle well—sitting at the desk from early morning until late evening, coffee-fueled but running on empty, with little time to care for myself physically or mentally. The phrase "Overworked & Underfucked" on a hoodie might seem blunt, but it perfectly encapsulates a mixture of exhaustion and a longing for balance. It's common to skip meals and neglect self-care during intense workdays, which only adds to the physical discomfort like back pain and dry eyes. Social invitations can feel overwhelming instead of inviting, especially when you're stuck in sweatpants that haven't seen a wash cycle in days. That fatigue manifests not just physically but emotionally; even posture tells the story of stress and tiredness. One way I've found to cope is by recognizing these feelings honestly and allowing myself moments of vulnerability. Wearing a comfortable hoodie, admitting to feeling overworked, and accepting social downtime can help relieve some pressure. It's important to remember that many people share this experience, especially as remote work becomes more common. Small breaks, staying hydrated, and reaching out to friends—even via text—can make a difference. If this hoodie reflects your current mood, take a moment to check in with yourself. Burnout is real, and acknowledging it is the first step toward regaining energy and finding joy outside the screen. Remember, self-care isn't selfish—it's necessary to thrive both at work and in life.

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