Like a pit crew at a NASCAR race.
I have a system. Maybe not a good system, but it is a system.
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This video is created by Unlicensed to Mom, a millennial mom creator known for raw, unfiltered, and humor-forward content about the real and often chaotic experience of motherhood. In this reel she captures the unglamorous reality of baby led weaning by walking into frame with her baby strapped to her back and immediately firing up her stick vacuum to clean the leftover food bits off his high chair — a moment that perfectly summarizes what BLW actually looks like in a real home with a real baby and a mom who is doing approximately seventeen things at once. This content speaks directly to new moms in the baby led weaning journey, first foods communities, and anyone who has ever looked at a high chair after a meal and felt personally victimized by it. It also appeals to babywearing moms, multitasking moms, and postpartum women navigating the newborn stage with older children. This content overlaps with audiences drawn to Serena Neel, Karrie Locher, Solid Starts, and the broader BLW community. If you have ever vacuumed the same high chair three times in one day and accepted that as your life now — this creator is for you.
Baby led weaning (BLW) really reshaped how I approached feeding my child, and it’s definitely not the perfectly posed Instagram moments you sometimes see. When my little one started exploring food, the high chair often looked like a mini food explosion zone. It was common for me to find myself vacuuming up bits of food multiple times a day—sometimes feeling like I was in a continuous cleanup race similar to a pit crew at NASCAR. But honestly, that’s part of the real experience. One thing I learned early on is that having a system is crucial—even if it’s not perfect. I started always keeping my stick vacuum within arm’s reach near the high chair, which made post-meal cleanup faster and less daunting. Baby wearing was another game changer; it allowed me to keep my hands free and my baby close while I tackled chores. This multitasking approach is what kept me sane during those intense newborn and toddler months. BLW is messy, but it’s also incredibly rewarding to see your child discover tastes and textures on their own terms. The high chair mess is almost a badge of honor—a symbol of independence and growth. If you find yourself vacuuming the same spot repeatedly, just know you’re not alone. It’s all part of the journey, and sharing these unglamorous moments honestly helps us connect and support each other. Engaging with communities like those led by creators such as Serena Neel and resources like Solid Starts helped me feel less isolated. They offer relatable content and practical tips that reflect the real ups and downs of BLW. Whether you’re a new mom overwhelmed by baby led weaning or someone looking for reassurance that messy moments are normal, embrace the chaos and remember—it’s all part of your unique parenting story.
