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Love is not everything, but loving yourself will be everything.

# Love is good, love yourself

Escape from the abuser, not the loser, but the person who loves himself enough to choose a new life.

Flirting men teach that dishonest love is never stable.

A man who uses force to teach you that a true lover will never hurt us.

Selfish people teach you not to value yourself for those who do not appreciate it.

Walking out may hurt today, but it's better than hurting your whole life.

This lesson doesn't make us weak, but it makes us stronger.

The wounds in our hearts will power us to choose better people.

Some people come in not a soul mate, but come in to teach us to love ourselves.

Coming is the beginning of a peaceful and precious life.

From now on, not to run after love that hurts, but to seek love that honors us.

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