Automatically translated.View original post

Love is not everything, but loving yourself will be everything.

# Love is good, love yourself

Escape from the abuser, not the loser, but the person who loves himself enough to choose a new life.

Flirting men teach that dishonest love is never stable.

A man who uses force to teach you that a true lover will never hurt us.

Selfish people teach you not to value yourself for those who do not appreciate it.

Walking out may hurt today, but it's better than hurting your whole life.

This lesson doesn't make us weak, but it makes us stronger.

The wounds in our hearts will power us to choose better people.

Some people come in not a soul mate, but come in to teach us to love ourselves.

Coming is the beginning of a peaceful and precious life.

From now on, not to run after love that hurts, but to seek love that honors us.

4/17 Edited to

... Read moreประสบการณ์การรักตัวเองเป็นสิ่งที่สำคัญยิ่งกว่าความรักจากคนอื่นในหลาย ๆ ครั้ง ผมเคยผ่านความสัมพันธ์ที่เต็มไปด้วยความผิดหวังและเจ็บปวด แต่สิ่งที่ผมได้เรียนรู้คือ การเดินออกจากความสัมพันธ์ที่ทำร้ายเราไม่ใช่เรื่องของความพ่ายแพ้ แต่เป็นการให้เกียรติตัวเองและเลือกชีวิตที่ดีกว่า สำหรับหลายคน การอยู่กับคนที่ไม่ซื่อสัตย์หรือใช้กำลังทำร้ายอาจทำให้รู้สึกอ่อนแอและมืดมน แต่มันกลับเป็นบทเรียนสำคัญที่ช่วยให้เราเห็นคุณค่าในตัวเองและไม่ยอมให้ใครมาทำลายจิตใจอีกต่อไป นอกจากนี้ การเจ็บปวดและรอยแผลในใจไม่จำเป็นต้องเป็นสิ่งลบเสมอไป มันสามารถกลายเป็นพลังและแนวทางให้เราเลือกคนที่ดีกว่าเดิมได้ในอนาคต เมื่อเราเรียนรู้ที่จะรักตัวเองจริง ๆ เราจะไม่วิ่งตามความรักที่ไม่มีค่า แต่จะมุ่งหาความสัมพันธ์ที่เพียบพร้อมไปด้วยความเคารพและเกียรติซึ่งกันและกัน สุดท้ายนี้ การรักตัวเองไม่ได้หมายความว่าเราเป็นคนไม่มีความรักสำหรับผู้อื่น แต่มันคือการให้ความสำคัญกับชีวิตและความสุขของตัวเองก่อน เพราะเมื่อเรามีความรักต่อตัวเองอย่างแท้จริงแล้ว เราก็พร้อมที่จะให้และรับความรักจากผู้อื่นอย่างมีคุณภาพและยั่งยืนมากยิ่งขึ้น

Related posts

A person in a yellow beanie and sunglasses looks up at the camera, with the text "LIFE CHANGING ADVICE I CAN NO LONGER GATEKEEP" overlaid on a wooden ceiling background.
An open doorway with glass panels and a metal gate reveals an interior with statues and stairs. The text "Everything is hard before it is easy." is overlaid.
A blurry image shows a smiling person sticking out their tongue, with one arm raised. The text "Learn to love yourself more than the idea of other people loving you." is overlaid.
These Words of Wisdom Will Get You Outta That Funk
Hello #GloGetter ! Sometimes we hear, read, or see things that change the trajectory of our lives. It may be a simple statement it may even be an entire novel… I’m not sure about you, but words always help me to put things into perspective or at least shift my own. Here are a few bits of a
Darrel Kennedy

Darrel Kennedy

1333 likes

The image is a title card for an article, featuring the bold text "HOW TO UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING YOU READ." It includes playful illustrations like a sun, stars, abstract shapes, a heart, a paper airplane, and a cartoon child, setting a lighthearted tone for reading tips.
This image outlines pre-reading strategies under the heading "Before you read." It lists three points: setting a purpose for reading, previewing the text by skimming headings, and activating background knowledge by making connections to what you already know.
Titled "As you read:", this image details active reading techniques. It advises readers to read actively by asking questions, take notes, visualize the text to create mental images, and re-read difficult passages for better comprehension.
How to understand everything you read ✨
I have read many books in which there are passages that I have read many times and still do not understand the meaning of it, simply because it is difficult to understand, or it uses a lot of vocabulary that I do not know. I searched for ways to make it easier 🤩 for me to understand what I read
Meredith Jao

Meredith Jao

2176 likes

A collection of shower products, including body wash, scrub, shaving oil, shower oil, and a body brush, arranged on a black shower caddy against a white tiled wall, with text overlay indicating a vanilla almond shower routine.
A hand dispensing a light-colored body wash from a large pump bottle into a shower, with text describing it as a gentle and comforting cleanser.
Hands scooping a vanilla-scented sugar scrub from a clear jar, with text describing its pleasant scent and hydrating effect on the skin.
my 8 step vanilla almond everything shower 🍨🧴🚿
lately i’ve been loving warm vanilla & almond scents! here is my current favorite scent combo for my everything showers! 🤍 step 1: cleanse with method simply nourish body wash ($12.49) step 2: scrub with tree hut vanilla shea sugar scrub ($9.99) step 3: prep my skin with tree hut
mash

mash

268 likes

Not everything deserves a reaction
I just finished Stop Letting Everything Affect You and honestly… I needed this more than I thought. It helped me realize how much I was reacting to things that didn’t even deserve my energy. still learning… but definitely growing 🖤 #bookwrapup #selfgrowth #healingjourney #booka
Becoming Through Books

Becoming Through Books

78 likes

Everything going up so no thank you
Days like this can be so overwhelming when it feels like bills are going up and everything is becoming so expensive. But don't give up! As long as you stay focused on your goals and put in the work to grow your business and income, you'll see the rewards in the end. It's ok to take some
SexyQueenAcces

SexyQueenAcces

45 likes

How Openness Attracts Everything You Desire✨?
Hello Dream Girls!🌸💗 In today's fast-paced world, embracing femininity and the essence of being a "Soft Girl" can unlock unparalleled power and radiance.🌟 This concept isn't just about outward appearances but delving deep into our inherent qualities of warmth, softness, and nurtu
Angell🤍✨️

Angell🤍✨️

354 likes

3 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT LOVING YOURSELF❤️⬇️
Hey babes <3 ~ Let’s talk about self-love. I know, it’s a phrase that gets thrown around a lot, but what does it really mean to love yourself? I’ve been on my own self-love journey, and there are three things I wish I’d known from the start… {No. 1} •Self-Love Isn’t About Perfection : I used
S.C.C✨🪴

S.C.C✨🪴

83 likes

Loving me!
Once you start putting yourself first and loving on you .. everything else seems so easy! Happy Tuesday 🩷 #loveyourselffirst #ladyveethetrucker
Lady Vee 🦋

Lady Vee 🦋

21 likes

everything i wish i knew about inflammation!!
first, the top 4️⃣ things to know: → inflammation is the root cause of almost everything that can go wrong in your body → stress causes inflammation → 98% of foods in the grocery store have ingredients that cause inflammation → you CAN heal and prevent inflammation! LEADING CAUSES⤵️ 👎 s
carley ◡̈

carley ◡̈

675 likes

Fall scents that I’m LOVING!!
All of the above scents are from Skylar! I recently fell head over heels for this brand and I will never stop trying to put everyone on them. It’s an addiction that will NOT be cured. Everything they’ve sent me is beyond what I could’ve imagined it would be and their new scents are PERFECT for fall
Jasminemcc

Jasminemcc

1471 likes

Timing is Everything 🥰🌿
The timing God spends on giving you the best life you can ask for takes the amount of time that is everlasting! Let God’s will be done and not yours. Loving my God for all He has done and will do! #godwillworkitout #peace #timingiseverything #womenofgod #fyp
Raven Good 🕊

Raven Good 🕊

174 likes

A title slide with the text 'How to Remember (Nearly) Everything You Learn' and '7 science-backed techniques'. An illustration shows a person's head with books being placed inside, symbolizing knowledge acquisition.
A text slide introducing the article, stating 'Learning is a skill' and posing the question 'Am I going about this in the best way?' It announces 7 techniques to optimize learning.
A slide explaining 'Spaced Repetition is Key' with text about memory retention. A graph illustrates memory percentage over time, showing drops and increases after spaced reviews at 24 hours, 2, 4, 8, and 16 days.
How to Remember (Nearly) Everything You Learn
Remembering what you learn doesn’t require magic, just a mix of smart techniques. Instead of passively reading your notes over and over, engage with the material actively through self-testing (active recall) and revisiting it periodically (spaced repetition). Organize information in a way that make
knoweecorner

knoweecorner

2244 likes

Everything you need to know about Sleep No More
Sleep No More is one of New York’s most iconic immersive experiences- there’s really nothing else quite like it! See the photo carousel for a description of the experience and see below for some of my top tips: 1️⃣ Explore! Sleep No More allows audiences to freely explore 5 highly-themed floor
BroadwayBen

BroadwayBen

1254 likes

Everything takes time🤍
Relationship 💗 Type of Relationship: 💗 Red/Green Flags: 💗 What I Learned:
💗✞Natalia ✞💗

💗✞Natalia ✞💗

5 likes

EVERYTHING I GOT FOR FREE AS A SEPHORA EMPLOYEE 🛍️
Loving the stuff I got this month :) #sephora #sephoraemployee #sephorahaul #haul #makeup #skincare #ViralBeauty
Sofya

Sofya

9222 likes

The crystal that teaches to love yourself first
Rose quartz isn't just pretty. It's the gentlest teacher you'll ever have. If you've spent years putting everyone else first, ignoring your own needs, or believing love has to be earned through sacrifice. This stone is your reset button. Rose quartz opens the heart to self-love,
Rebecca Dragonheart

Rebecca Dragonheart

16 likes

Love yourself first💕💕
Listen listen! Everything happens for a reason that’s what I learned over the years. But loving yourself first is not an option! You need self love I know it’s hard but you do!! Please please please find someone who boost your confidence and makes you love yourself! Always open to talk! #selflove
Riley💕💕

Riley💕💕

3 likes

A black shower head sprays water in a tiled shower, with two black shower caddies holding various bath products. Text overlays indicate it's an "Everything Shower FOR HIM" tour, featuring an Amazon shower head.
Two bottles of hair care products are displayed on a speckled counter. One is a gray bottle of strengthening shampoo and conditioner, and the other is a white bottle of curl care shampoo and conditioner, both designed for hair health.
A black jar of exfoliating body scrub and a dark brown bottle of body wash are shown on a speckled counter. The scrub is described as soft, and both products are noted for their pleasant scents.
Everything Shower FOR HIM😫
Okay this one is for the men or the girlies looking for gift ideas because let me put you on to some of my man’s favorites!! He’s a Bevel guy but this Native Shampoo smells so good and he loves to switch it up sometimes! Men need scrubs too!! I found this one on Amazon and it smells amazing!
H A L E Y 🌴🌞

H A L E Y 🌴🌞

1247 likes

A person in a bathtub with a towel on their head, holding a glass, looking out at the ocean. The image has text overlay "Everything Shower Routine" and a Lemon8 logo, setting a relaxing mood for a self-care routine.
A detailed text guide outlining a comprehensive "Everything Shower" routine, divided into "PRE-SHOWER PREPARATION," "IN-SHOWER INDULGENCE," and "POST-SHOWER BLISS" sections with numbered steps for each phase.
A graphic illustrating a shower routine, categorized into "Pre-Shower," "IN Shower," and "Post-Shower" steps. It features a pink bathtub and a bar of soap, providing a visual and simplified guide.
A Guide For Your Everything Shower Routine 😉
The ‘Everything Shower’ is peak self-care, inviting you to indulge in a series of steps that will leave you feeling rejuvenated and perfectly pampered from head to toe. Your Everything Shower routine can be as comprehensive as you like, making time for exfoliating, shaving, massages and more. This
Angelina

Angelina

166 likes

Loving everything about me
#whatieat #selflove #selfie
ᴶᴱᴺᴺᵞᵀᴿᴬᵛᴵᴱˢᴬˣˣ3

ᴶᴱᴺᴺᵞᵀᴿᴬᵛᴵᴱˢᴬˣˣ3

325 likes

My perfect reset everything shower
This is my favorite way to reset and take care of myself lately. i’ve been slowing down and actually enjoying my showers instead of rushing and it making all the difference my hair feels healthier, my skin is smoother, and i come out feeling so put together. It’s not even just a shower, it’s me tak
Alexandria❣️

Alexandria❣️

45 likes

Love yourself!
Loving yourself isn’t about being perfect or having everything figured out—it’s about accepting who you are, flaws and all, and giving yourself the same kindness you’d offer a close friend. It’s taking the time to recognize your worth, even on the days when it feels harder to see. It’s setting boun
Mel

Mel

34 likes

A smartphone in a clear case displays a 'Good Morning' message with the time and date, overlaid on a torn paper effect revealing a cozy street scene. The text 'COMFORT APPS FOR GIRLIES' is prominently featured.
A phone screen shows the Psyfy app interface with a village, characters, and daily tasks. Beside it, the Psyfy app store listing and a recommendation: 'Decorating, gifting, and visiting friends feels so warm — like building a tiny community that actually cares.'
A phone screen displays the DailyBean journal app, showing a calendar and options to log moods, meals, hobbies, and work status. The DailyBean app store listing and a recommendation for low-energy days are also shown.
🌷 Cozy Comfort Apps I’m Loving
These apps feel like little hugs on my phone — soft, comforting, and perfect for everyday moments 💗 1️⃣ Psyfy ✅ Platform: iOS & Android & Web | Paid: Free A cozy app where you decorate your home, add friends, and send gifts while growing your own little world. 2️⃣ Daily Beans ✅ Pl
growingolivia✨

growingolivia✨

1017 likes

Mindset is everything & it can transform your life
These simple shifts can completely transform your mindset and lead to a more empowered, peaceful life🌸 Which one resonates most with you today? #mindsetshift
Bre 🦋

Bre 🦋

55 likes

Love Yourself
A friendly reminder to LOVE YOURSELF. Loving yourself, especially during the toughest moments, is one of the most powerful acts of self-care you can offer. It’s easy to love yourself when everything feels aligned, when life is flowing smoothly, and when you’re thriving. But the true test of self-lo
Krys Creates

Krys Creates

14 likes

Start loving yourself correctly,everything changes
#self love #godislove✨🦋 #createdwithpurpose
MsPrize

MsPrize

17 likes

A collection of body care products for a self-care shower routine, including a body lotion, body wash, bar soap, body butter, and deodorant. The items are arranged against a pink background with motivational text.
Three body care items are displayed: a bar of soap in a white box, a small jar of body butter, and a light blue deodorant stick. They are placed on a white surface with a pink-themed background.
Two bottles of body care products are shown: a dark blue pump bottle of body lotion and a purple bottle of body wash. They are set against a pink background featuring various patterns and text.
Everything In My SelfCare Shower Routine 🫧🧖🏻‍♀️🚿
I’ve been loving these products. It’s so good. 10/10 if you want a cozy shower routine. Try this routine ladies. Also, don’t forget to care for yourself and take your daily routine to the next level. #everythingshowerroutine #lemon8challenge #bodycare #hygieneroutine #showerroutine
Sabrina.Simone

Sabrina.Simone

57 likes

When Love for God Changes Everything
It’s not about forcing yourself to stop sinning. It’s about loving God so much that what once pulled you away no longer has power over you. Transformation doesn’t start with rules, it starts with relationship. 🤍✝️ #FaithOverFear #JesusChangesHearts #ChristianTikTok #WalkWithGod
I.am.Irma.C💖

I.am.Irma.C💖

13 likes

-Date Yourself: The Ultimate Act of Self-Love 💕
Solo dates are a form of self-love, allowing you to prioritize and nurture your own needs and desires. They deepen your connection to your inner world by tuning into your thoughts and feelings without distractions, fostering self-reliance, confidence, and personal growth. Engaging in solo act
Tisha | Beauty & Stuff

Tisha | Beauty & Stuff

96 likes

Loving Yourself ✨❤️👏🏾🪶
We know in life loving yourself can be hard sometimes especially if we don’t know ourselves, once you get into your spiritual journey you’ll find everything and learn more things about you. So go out there and love yourself no matter somebody call you ugly, short, fat or any word they say off the b
Demerris Hart

Demerris Hart

2 likes

When Loving Too Deeply Hurts
She loved him with a fearlessness most people only read about in books. The kind of love that gives without counting, trusts without doubt, and believes with every fiber of your being. She believed in him—believed in his promises, in the future he painted with words that once felt like truth.
Bella Feu 🦋

Bella Feu 🦋

5 likes

A person in a cow-print hoodie holds 'The Untethered Soul' book, with text overlay stating it's a book that changed their perspective on everything.
Four images show open spiral notebooks filled with handwritten notes, alongside copies of 'The Untethered Soul' book, indicating deep engagement and note-taking.
A white background displays a numbered list of 20 key concepts and takeaways from 'The Untethered Soul' book, covering topics like self, mind, consciousness, and liberation.
this book changed my perspective on EVERYTHING🤯📖
Hands down my favorite self-help/spiritual book I’ve ever read🥹🤍 This book reframed the way I think & made me finally understand what “you are not your thoughts” ACTUALLY means. l resonated so deeply with every word and felt so much lighter after reading it. I also loveee the analogies he us
Halle Buttafuso

Halle Buttafuso

442 likes

Overthinking everything & everyone.
Overthinking will have you loving people from a distance just to protect them from your own storms 💭🖤 #foryou #energy #relatable #mindsetshift #AlignedEnergy
Twanna

Twanna

2 likes

Do you unconditionally love yourself?
Do you unconditionally love yourself? Most people struggle with loving themselves because they are trying to do it from the same place that creates self judgment. They look inward and see flaws, mistakes, and unfinished chapters, then wonder why self love feels forced or fake. At the level of eg
Coach Mike

Coach Mike

4 likes

You’ll get everything ✨
The universe is always working in your favor. Trust the process, because everything you desire is already on its way to you. Whether it's love, success, or abundance, it's all within your reach. Keep your energy high, stay focused on your goals, and believe in your power to manifest the lif
Magic Echo💅💸

Magic Echo💅💸

14 likes

Current podcasts I’m loving ✨🦋🎧🖤
Sharing a few of my favorite podcasts that keep me inspired, grounded, and glowing ✨ From wellness tips to real-life advice, these have become my go-to listens. What podcasts do you love? Let me know in the comments! 💖🎧 #WellnessVibes #CozyListening #PodcastRecommendations #SelfCare
⋆. 𐙚 ˚ 𝐼𝓇𝓎𝓈 ˚ 𐙚 .⋆

⋆. 𐙚 ˚ 𝐼𝓇𝓎𝓈 ˚ 𐙚 .⋆

1259 likes

My Secret to Remembering Everything I Study!
This is the study method that actually helps me remember things long-term 👇 I’ve been using active recall + retrieval practice and it’s made a huge difference: - I test myself instead of rereading - I use the blurting method (literally just writing out everything I remember) - I space out my
CompSkyy

CompSkyy

18 likes

My Everything
When you find the love of your life, the grass will never be greener anywhere else 🎀♥️ Life is beautiful, it can be rough but its all worth it with you . Loving every moment! #loveofmylife #embracevulnerability #Lemon8Diary #lemon8bookclub #ilove
JT

JT

1 like

👇Love is EVERYTHING👇
How easy is it to love your mom, or your dad or your kids? Pretty easy huh? Now imagine loving the ones who hurt you in that same way or your enemies! 🤔Cons: they will more than likely continue to do awful things and disrespect you 👍Pros: you will make it into the kingdom of heaven 💜What
Blended but m3

Blended but m3

10 likes

A grayscale illustration shows a skeleton in a tuxedo embracing a woman from behind. The skeleton's bony hand covers the woman's eyes, while its other hand rests on her waist. The woman wears a backless, lacy dress, symbolizing a harmful or 'dead' relationship.
Loving the wrong person.
So many people are suffering in relationships today because they refuse to let go of the person they are currently in a relationship with. They know the relationship isn't working, but they refuse to leave because they feel they might be able to change the person. They believe they are wi
Ayandhiran

Ayandhiran

81 likes

Always Love Yourself First 💖
The foundation of everything begins with self-love. When you love yourself unconditionally, you are in alignment with your highest potential. Embrace your flaws and celebrate your uniqueness. Self-love is not about perfection, it's about acknowledging and appreciating the person you are, exact
Magic Echo💅💸

Magic Echo💅💸

13 likes

✨Giving Him Space Without Losing Yourself 🫶
I used to overthink every little thing when a guy started pulling away. I’d reread texts, wonder if I said too much, or not enough… and honestly, I’d take it all way too personally. But this time felt different. His energy shifted, and instead of trying to force closeness or clarity, I took a deep
Allison 🎀

Allison 🎀

31 likes

Be consistent with everything you do
Consistency is the key to success. Be consistent with everything you do, and you'll see progress over time. Whether it's in work, personal goals, or relationships, sticking to your commitments and maintaining steady effort will eventually lead to achieving your dreams. Remember, small consi
Mindset Rebirth

Mindset Rebirth

212 likes

When u loving everything about yourself❤️‍🔥🌟👑🌎
Prettyeyes

Prettyeyes

2 likes

Feeling blue but I everything will be alright
#growthmindset #Lemon8 #lemon8challenge #mentalhealth #studywithme #wegotthis This week…this week has been super stressful and sad 😢 but I know in my heart that I will be okay. I cried a lot today and my eyes hurt. My emotions are not normal today. I’m drained and body/ mind are so he
Nadia lang

Nadia lang

16 likes

10 WARNINGS: DON’T LOSE YOURSELF IN LOVE — PUT ALLAH FIRST
✨ Love deeply… but never lose yourself ✨ One of the biggest mistakes people make in love… 👉 is making someone their whole world Giving everything Losing their identity Forgetting their purpose And when that person changes or leaves… 👉 they’re left lost Because they built their lif
Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

1 like

See more