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Don’t just pay attention to there words. Let me tell
You something I don’t normally talk about. When I first met my husband he was sweet, kind, he spoiled me told me how much I meant to him all the time.
The other day I told him about something I had achieved finally and he basically be littled me told me it took me too long , I was stupid than proceeded to call me lazy and that I didn’t contribute anything to this world.
I realized than that it’s time to take action, follow my dreams pay attention to the actions of others and not just there words because words are deceiving. I am now focusing on me and only me. I am pushing through and I have a plan!!! I got this and no one is going to bring me down. I will no longer allow anyone to treat me that way ever again. He doesn’t hold me anymore or tell me how pretty I am or say the sweet things anymore and I realized something his words In the beginning was a front his tru actions and intentions have just come out and it was heart breaking.
I've had my own share of experiences where words initially gave me comfort, but actions later revealed the true nature of those around me. One thing I've learned is that words can sometimes mask reality. For example, someone might say kind things, but if their actions don't follow, it's a sign to reconsider the relationship. In my journey, I started paying closer attention to how people behaved rather than what they said. It helped me avoid being hurt by empty promises or compliments that weren’t backed up by genuine care. This shift in mindset empowered me to focus on my goals and celebrate my achievements without seeking approval from those who don’t truly support me. Self-love became a priority when I realized that relying on others’ words led to disappointment. I began setting boundaries and surrounding myself with people whose actions matched their words. It felt liberating to take control of my happiness and not let negative judgments define my worth. If you find yourself doubting your value because of others' dismissive comments, remember: actions are the real proof of someone’s intentions. By focusing on your own growth and trusting your instincts, you can create a life filled with genuine respect and encouragement. This mindset has made a huge difference in how I view relationships and personal success, and it might help you too on your own self-love journey.
