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Arafo married.

Extraordinary impressed by the majestic earth.

Moving, marriage, honeymoon, family misfortune, four months of rage with retirement.

Experience the roller coaster 🎢 of life.

I will do my best on a diet, a new life, and a job change while facing the misery of my parents' house that I was looking away from, and myself that I was neglecting.

# Lemon8 diary

6/2 Edited to

... Read moreアラフォー世代での結婚や新生活は、多くの変化と向き合う時期でもあります。私の場合も、引っ越しや仕事の転職、家族の不幸などさまざまな出来事が重なり、一気に人生が動き出しました。 この年代での結婚は、若い頃とは違った感覚で取り組む必要があると実感しました。身体的にも心境的にも変化が多いため、ダイエットや健康管理にも力を入れ、自分自身としっかり向き合う時間が増えました。特に実家の事情と向き合うことで、自分のルーツや家族の大切さを再確認する機会にもなりました。 新婚旅行では大自然の雄大な景色に触れることで、日常の忙しさから解放され、心がリフレッシュされました。こうした非日常の体験が、新生活のモチベーションアップに繋がったと思います。 アラフォーでの新しいスタートは決して楽なものばかりではありませんが、経験を積んだ分だけ得られるものも大きいです。人生のジェットコースターに乗っているような感覚の中で、困難を乗り越えた自分を誇りに思えますし、これからも前向きに新しい挑戦に取り組んでいきたいと思っています。

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