To Not Wait is Self-Sabatoge

Many of us don’t like waiting. However, when we don’t wait, we can self-sabotage blessings we had coming our way.

God unveils to you what is best for you when you trust him. True joy comes from putting all your hope and trust in God’s care. He doesn’t need your help, just your faith and obedience.

Check out my 3-day devotional about peace of waiting on God.

https://valeecedavis.com/b/JAcai

#faith #wait #obedience #emergingcreator

7/6 Edited to

... Read moreWaiting can often feel frustrating and challenging, especially when we are eager for change or solutions in our lives. But from my personal experience, I have found that rushing or trying to force outcomes often leads to missed opportunities and setbacks. When we trust God's timing, it allows us to receive what is truly meant for us—sometimes better than what we initially desired. The phrase "Whatever you desire, God can do better" is a powerful reminder that our plans may be limited, but divine plans are far greater. Through faith and obedience, we learn patience and develop a deeper peace, even in uncertain times. I once struggled with impatience during a difficult career transition. Trying to speed the process only caused stress and poor decisions. However, when I surrendered the timeline to God and focused on obedience and trust, doors opened unexpectedly, bringing greater fulfillment than I imagined. Embracing the wait as a period of preparation and growth transformed my attitude. I started to see waiting not as a passive or wasted time, but as divinely guided growth. This mindset helped me avoid self-sabotage, which often manifests as anxiety-driven choices or giving up too soon. If you are struggling with impatience, I encourage you to explore spiritual tools such as devotionals or meditations on waiting. These practices can cultivate hope and faith, making the wait itself a meaningful part of your journey. Remember, true joy comes from placing your hope fully in God’s care. He does not require our interference, only our faith and obedience. Trusting this truth transforms waiting into a source of peace and preparation, rather than anxiety or frustration. For those seeking deeper insight, the 3-day devotional linked in the original article can provide guidance and encouragement to embrace the peace found in waiting.

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