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How to explain a private zone to a child?

My 6-year-old elementary school 1 boy has a developmental bias and can not listen to people properly. He likes soft things, especially soft ones, and finally the problem behavior such as touching the body of other children and hugging the teacher (woman) is complained by the schoolchild teacher three times a week...

So I quickly established rules.

Hugs are only with family.

② Up to high five with friends.

③ When touching with tag etc., only back, shoulders and hands.

④ If you need to touch the body other than that, get permission to touch ‼️

I bought other picture books.

Saku, Enmisakiko. Eh, Kawahara Mizumaru's "Daiji Daiji Dokoda?" was published by Oizumi Shoten.

Let's read it together once a day before going to bed.

Even though I can study, my mother's anxiety cannot stand 😭

# peace of mind is the best # comment _ challenge # remopote _ parenting Life with Picture Books Life with children.

2025/11/10 Edited to

私も子どものプライベートゾーンについて教える際、感触の良いものが好きで他人に触れてしまう行動に悩んでいました。そんな時、家庭内での具体的なルールづくりがとても効果的でした。例えば「ハグは家族だけ」「友達とはハイタッチまで」といった明確な線引きをし、何か触る前には必ず許可をとることを徹底しました。これは子どもが安心して理解できる境界線となります。また、絵本「だいじだいじどーこだ？」は「からだ」と「性」の大切さをやさしく教えてくれるため、毎晩寝る前に一緒に読んで習慣にすることで、自分の体の大切さや大切なゾーンについて自然に理解していきました。絵本には「一人ひとりが大切な存在」というメッセージが盛り込まれており、子どもの自己肯定感を育てるのにも一役買っています。日々の実践の中で感じたのは、単なる禁止ではなく理由をわかりやすく説明し、子どもと対話を重ねることが大切だということです。特に発達に偏りがあると感覚が敏感だったりズレていることもあるため、柔らかい物に触れたい欲求を理解しつつルールでコントロールするバランスが重要です。親子でのコミュニケーションを深めながら、絵本やルールを活用してプライベートゾーンの理解を促すことで、子どもが安心して楽しく社会性を身につけられるようになりました。もし同じような悩みがある方がいれば、ぜひ試してみてほしい方法です。

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