💜 I Thought It Was Just Movement… Until I Noticed This
💜 For a long time, I thought movement was just movement.
Walking back and forth.
Returning to the same place.
Bringing me things.
Waiting.
Repeating familiar routines.
But the more I watched Bella, the more I started noticing patterns.
Not random patterns.
Meaningful ones.
The more I paid attention, the more I realized there was often a reason behind where she went, what she brought me, and what she kept returning to.
Sometimes communication doesn’t start with words.
Sometimes it starts with movement.
And sometimes understanding begins when we stop asking how to stop a behavior and start asking why it’s happening in the first place. 💜
✨ Weekly Theme: What Bella May Be Trying To Communicate
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When caring for someone with autism, especially those who are nonverbal, it can sometimes be challenging to interpret their needs and emotions. From my own experience, I noticed early on that what seemed like repetitive or purposeless movements often carried deeper significance. Instead of focusing on stopping the behavior, I learned to look closely at the context and pattern. For instance, pacing back and forth or repeatedly bringing certain objects isn't just random—they may be trying to express excitement, anxiety, or a need for comfort. In fact, movement can be a powerful form of communication, sometimes telling us more than words ever could. By shifting my perspective to ask "what is this movement trying to tell me?" rather than "how do I stop this?", I was able to better understand the emotions and needs behind these actions. Noticing where Bella returned frequently or what she chose to bring helped me identify her preferences, dislikes, or attempts to connect. This approach deepened our relationship and improved daily interactions, highlighting the value of patience and attentiveness. For parents and caregivers navigating similar experiences, observing and reflecting on movement patterns can unlock a new language of connection. It’s a reminder that in the world of neurodiversity, communication is rich and varied, and understanding begins when we listen with eyes and heart as much as ears.
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