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The reason why anxiety does not disappear even if it is paid off

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... Read more50代で住宅ローンの完済を迎えると、多くの人が達成感と同時に不安を感じることがあります。私自身も同じような経験をしました。退職金でローンを一括返済すると、確かに借金はなくなりますが、その反面、手元の現金がほとんどなくなり、いざというときの資金的な余裕がなくなるのです。 画像にもあるように「長年必死に働いて手にするはずの退職金が右から左へローン返済に消えていく」という状況は、家は手に入れたものの次の人生の武器を失うことに繋がります。特に50代はまだ老後に向けて時間が残されており、働き方を見直しながら現金を備える必要があります。 私の体験から感じたのは、退職金で完済を考えるよりも、いわゆる「もう一つの柱」を作ることが重要ということです。たとえば定年後も収入を得られる仕事や副業をはじめる、資産運用を検討して手元の資金を守る方法を学ぶことがおすすめです。 将来的に「豊かな老後」を実現したいのであれば、家という資産を残しつつ、自分の収入の柱を複数持ち、現金を一定程度は手元に置いておくことが大事です。この考え方は多くの方が見落としがちな点ですが、私が体験した不安を乗り越えるための大きなカギでした。 つまり、50代で住宅ローン完済を目指すなら、退職金全額をローン返済にあてる単純な完済計画ではなく、その後の収入や資金繰りの計画も含めてトータルで見直すことが必要です。今後の生活に安心感をもたらすために「知らないと危険」なポイントを押さえ、長期間の視野で老後準備をしてください。

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