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10 things to know when you're in your 20s! 🌷✨👀

👋🏻👋🏻 Hi Hi Nakaa, friends, brothers and sisters, all of Lemon 🍋💛

By the age of 20, many people will begin to realize that life changes very quickly in education, work, money, relationships, and life pressures.

Some are not taught but must gradually learn. 💖

This post is 10 stories that once we grow up, we'll definitely meet. 🌷

1. No one lives in time.

> > Some people graduate quickly, some are still searching for themselves, some are already working. Our lives timeline is not really the same. There is no need to hurry to compare yourself to anyone.

2. Money is more important than thought

> > When you grow up, you start to know that "having money to save" makes life a lot more comfortable. You should start managing money right now.

3. Health is very important

> > When you're young, you can eat anything, but when you grow up, your body changes skin, energy, and mental health. It's all about taking care of yourself.

4. People around you have a lot of effect on life.

> > Being with a very toxic person, life will be unconsciously tired, trying to choose to be with someone who supports and is already comfortable.

5. Leisure is not wrong

> > Not necessarily productive all the time. Sometimes a break is really necessary with life.

6. Confidence is more important than perfection.

> > Most charismatic-looking people. Not the most perfect, but the "self-confident" ones.

7. Must start to develop yourself seriously

> > Either language, finance, online skills or mindset, because the world changes so fast. Learning all the time is really very important.

8. Some relationships may not last forever.

> > Growing up will start to change the people around you. Some people come in for lessons, not for life.

9. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

> > Age 20 does not necessarily have to live a perfect life. Many people are still lost, still confused, and still gradually learn to live the same.

10. In the end, the person who has to be with us all our lives is ourselves.

> > So don't forget to take care of your heart, love yourself, and be very kind to yourself.

🌷 20 may be one of the most exhausting and confusing periods, but it's also when we're going to "gradually grow up," too. 💖

# This life # Age 20 # Something to know # Should have known this since the age of 20 # Lemon 8 invites

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... Read moreการก้าวเข้าสู่วัย 20 เป็นช่วงเวลาที่เต็มไปด้วยความเปลี่ยนแปลงและบทเรียนชีวิตที่สำคัญมาก สำหรับตัวผมเอง การได้รับรู้และทำความเข้าใจเรื่อง 10 ข้อที่สำคัญเหล่านี้ช่วยให้ปรับตัวได้ดีขึ้นและไม่รู้สึกสับสนใจชีวิตมากนัก หนึ่งในประสบการณ์ที่อยากแบ่งปันคือเรื่องการเงิน หลายคนมองข้ามความสำคัญของการมีเงินเก็บตอนอายุยังน้อย แต่ผมพบว่าการวางแผนและเริ่มออมเงินตั้งแต่วันนี้ แม้จำนวนจะไม่มากก็ช่วยให้รู้สึกปลอดภัยและสบายใจในภายหลังได้จริงๆ นอกจากนี้เรื่องสุขภาพก็สำคัญมากที่วัย 20 ร่างกายจะเริ่มแสดงสัญญาณการเปลี่ยนแปลง เช่น ผิวหนัง ความเหนื่อยล้า และสุขภาพจิต การดูแลตัวเองด้วยการนอนพักให้เพียงพอ ออกกำลังกาย และหลีกเลี่ยงความเครียดช่วยให้สามารถรับมือกับความเปลี่ยนแปลงได้ดีขึ้น และสิ่งที่สำคัญที่สุดคือการเลือกคนรอบข้าง ช่วงวัยนี้ผมได้เรียนรู้ว่าการอยู่ร่วมกับคนที่เป็นพิษ (toxic people) จะเพิ่มความเครียดโดยไม่รู้ตัว จึงพยายามเลือกสร้างสัมพันธ์กับคนที่ส่งเสริมและเข้าใจเรา ให้กำลังใจในการเติบโต สุดท้าย ผมอยากเน้นย้ำว่าการรักตัวเองและใจดีกับตัวเองสำคัญที่สุด ไม่ต้องกดดันว่าต้องสมบูรณ์แบบ หรือทำตามมาตรฐานใคร 20 เป็นแค่จุดเริ่มต้นของการเรียนรู้และเติบโตในชีวิต ลองใช้เวลาเหล่านี้ค้นหาตัวตนและวางรากฐานที่มั่นคงสำหรับอนาคตครับ

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