Looking forward to 2026
My story has years that are messy & raw, but real. It's filled with situations I wish I could change or completely erase. But it's also a story of survival, resilience and finding moments and times of peace amongst the chaos, discovering a Grace that kept me alive and a God that was with me when I rarely asked for His help. Somehow it's also filled with people who saw the good in me way before I saw it in myself, believed in me and wanted nothing from me but for me to live a happy and healthy life. As I've grown older I now realize that "with age comes wisdom." Therefore 2026 is going to be the beginning of ME CHOOSING ME! I know that may mean walking away from people I love and loving them from a distance, which I know will be heartbreaking! If I choose to no longer exist and to actually live, it's what I need to do. I can only do that by being around people that have my best interest at heart, relying on God and fully trusting him. Most importantly I need to get back to doing some long needed work on myself to fill this huge hole in my soul. I am NOT AFRAID and that is a feeling I haven't had for a long time. So I now believe that 2026 is going to be the year of me getting back to being me and not looking back to being the girl I used to be!
Rebuilding oneself after difficult times requires immense strength and determination. The image's message, "There's nothing stronger than a woman who has rebuilt herself from the worst time," perfectly complements the story of survival and resilience shared here. It highlights the transformative power of self-reflection, faith, and honest evaluation of one’s personal relationships. Many people find that long-term personal growth comes from learning to trust not only others but themselves, as well as engaging with spirituality or faith to nurture inner peace. Walking away from toxic relationships—even those involving loved ones—is often one of the hardest yet most necessary steps to heal and grow. Choosing to prioritize self-care and mental health can fill the void left by past pain and encourage a renewed sense of purpose. The upcoming year can symbolize a fresh start, an opportunity to embark on a journey toward authentic self-expression, marked by wisdom gained through life’s trials. Approaching 2026 with courage and determination means embracing vulnerability and accepting that healing is a continuous process. Trusting God or higher power can provide comfort and guidance during moments of uncertainty, while surrounding oneself with supportive, genuine people creates a healthier environment. Ultimately, the decision to live fully, fearlessly, and on one’s own terms is an empowering act of reclaiming identity. For anyone facing similar struggles, know that resilience, grace, and hope can lead to a stronger and more fulfilling life. This narrative serves as an inspiration to embrace change, seek peace within, and step confidently towards a new chapter centered on self-love and growth.
