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GasLighting. I can't see anything when she turns off the light.

If you produce a lie so repeatedly that the lie becomes real, gas lighting is like that. And it's so painful. Gas lighting is a form of threatening behavior in which the perpetrator uses deceit and misrepresentation and brainwashing to give the victim a sense of value and ability when the victim feels valued, it's necessary to speak, rely on the perpetrator, or feel valued only when accepted by the perpetrator.

Most of the people who tend to use the light gas method are narcissists who are self-centered. What matters to these people is that they have power over others.

Why is gas lighting so bad? I think, because it is to hurt the values of others, making the offender feel suspicious of his own worth, so that he feels worthless, losing confidence in the hope of exercising domination and controlling the other. Cruelty is to try to make the victim feel isolated, defenseless, valuable, making the victim vulnerable, so that I can control.

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... Read moreแก๊สไลท์ติ้ง (Gaslighting) เป็นหนึ่งในรูปแบบของพฤติกรรมล่วงละเมิดทางจิตใจที่ซับซ้อนและรุนแรง ซึ่งผู้กระทำใช้วิธีการหลอกลวงบิดเบือนความจริง ทำให้เหยื่อเริ่มสงสัยในความคิด ความทรงจำ และความรู้สึกของตนเอง โดยเป้าหมายหลักคือการควบคุมอีกฝ่ายให้ต้องพึ่งพาหรือเชื่อฟังผู้กระทำ พฤติกรรมนี้มักเกิดขึ้นในความสัมพันธ์ที่มีความไม่สมดุลทางอำนาจ เช่นความสัมพันธ์แบบคู่รัก ครอบครัว หรือแม้แต่ที่ทำงาน ผู้กระทำที่มีลักษณะหลงตัวเอง เห็นแก่ตัว และต้องการอำนาจเหนือผู้อื่น มักใช้แก๊สไลท์ติ้งเพื่อสร้างความสับสนและทำลายความมั่นใจเหยื่อ ผลกระทบของแก๊สไลท์ติ้งต่อผู้ถูกกระทำมีความรุนแรง เช่น ความวิตกกังวล ซึมเศร้า ความรู้สึกโดดเดี่ยวไร้ที่พึ่ง และการสูญเสียความเชื่อมั่นในตัวเอง ซึ่งอาจนำไปสู่ปัญหาสุขภาพจิตที่ถาวรได้ถ้าไม่ได้รับการช่วยเหลือทันเวลา การป้องกันและรับมือกับแก๊สไลท์ติ้ง จำเป็นต้องมีการรับรู้และเข้าใจพฤติกรรมดังกล่าว เพื่อสามารถแยกแยะข้อเท็จจริงจากการบิดเบือนได้อย่างชัดเจน นอกจากนี้ควรสร้างเครือข่ายสนับสนุนที่มั่นคง เช่น เพื่อน ครอบครัว หรือนักจิตวิทยา เพื่อรับคำปรึกษาและช่วยเหลือเมื่อเกิดสถานการณ์ดังกล่าว ผู้ที่สงสัยว่ากำลังตกเป็นเหยื่อของแก๊สไลท์ติ้งควรพยายามจดบันทึกเหตุการณ์ต่างๆ เพื่อเก็บหลักฐานและฝึกฝนการเชื่อมั่นในความรู้สึกของตนเอง รวมถึงต้องระวังการถูกควบคุมและบังคับให้เสียความเป็นตัวของตัวเอง โดยรวมแล้ว การเข้าใจแก๊สไลท์ติ้งและผลกระทบที่เกิดขึ้นช่วยให้ผู้คนมีเกราะป้องกันทางจิตใจ และเพิ่มโอกาสในการฟื้นฟูความมั่นใจและคุณค่าของตนเองกลับมาได้อย่างแท้จริง

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