A 30-year-old working from 9am to 11pm. 14 hours a day. Even weekends. Siao liao. And if someone is single with no commitments yet, maybe this kind of lifestyle still feels manageable for a season. But once kids and family come into the picture, things become very different. Becau

Just completed pre-coaching call today And one thing she said really stayed in my mind even after the session ended. She shared that Singaporeans are still not quite used to this kind of framework yet. But in the next 5 years or so, more people will slowly move towards this style of workin

Did my phone activate some kind of spy mode recently. And here come the content .... Just recently, my bestie was sharing with me about the unfairness she felt at work… She work for 20 plus years. Stay loyal. Gain experience. But one day she realise… someone new can come in earning the sa

A few of you messaged me after my last post "What exactly are you doing on the side?" So this Sat, I will like to invite you to find out. A group of us, with real jobs, real families, and real busy lives all are coming together for a live sharing session. They'll be shar

A few years ago, if I see articles like this. I probably would have quietly related to it too. Wake up. Go to work. Pay bills. Repeat again. And the scary part is, from the outside, life looked “normal”. Stable job. Responsible adult. Doing what everyone else was doing. But somewhere

Recently, I came across 2 articles that really made me stop scrolling for a while. One was about a little child saying, “I don’t want mama to go to work.” The other was about a woman being laid off shortly after becoming a new mum. And both sides felt heavy in different ways. Becaus

To all the mamas out there… Happy Mother’s Day 💜 Sometimes I think mamas are the quiet glue holding everything together. We remember the small things nobody notices. We carry the mental checklist that never really switches off. We worry about the future while trying our best to stay

Sometimes people ask me. “𝗢𝗻𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗯𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗮𝗵? 𝗟𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗴𝗼𝘁 𝗰𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻𝘁𝘀, 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗱𝘂𝗰𝘁𝘀, 𝗿𝗲𝗳𝘂𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝘀𝘀𝘂𝗲𝘀… 𝗵𝗼𝘄?” Then today I received this random scam/spam email about a “defective product”. And it just reminded me why I’m grateful I chose a business model with an established global

If you're in your 40s, still showing up to work every day, still taking care of everyone around you… and quietly wondering if there's more you should be doing for your own future. I think you'll understand why I started this journey. Most people who come across my content usually

I think a lot of women in their 40s are quietly asking themselves this question “𝗜𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗴𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗸 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝘅𝘁 10–20 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀?” Wake up. Go to work. Pay bills. Take care of everyone else. Then repeat again tomorrow. And somewhere along the way… the version of ourselves

$1,000,000 𝘁𝗼 𝗿𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗲 𝗮 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗶𝗻 𝗦𝗶𝗻𝗴𝗮𝗽𝗼𝗿𝗲. I saw this being discussed recently. Some say it’s exaggerated while some share it’s realistic. But as I was reading through it, I realised. Maybe we’re asking the wrong question. It’s not just how much it costs. It’s how we’re choosing to e

Recently I had a few conversations. One of the most common questions that came up was                 𝗜𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗮 𝗵𝗶𝗴𝗵 𝗿𝗶𝘀𝗸 𝗼𝗳 𝗳𝗮𝗶𝗹𝘂𝗿𝗲? So I gave a straightforward answer. Yes, like any business, there is some level of risk. But in this case, it’s more controlled becos you’re not req

𝗛𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗴𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘂𝗽 𝗵𝗮𝗹𝗳𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲? There was a time I thought, if I wanted to start something, i just had to figure it out myself. Watch videos, youtube. Read here and there. Try… and hope I’m doing the right thing. But the truth.

Someone shared with me recently why she’s looking for extra income. She had her child at a later stage in life. Now in her late 40s… finances are tighter than expected. But her child’s music enrichment is getting more expensive as the grades go up. When she said that… I really understood.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝗳 𝗜 𝘁𝗿𝘆… 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝘁 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸? Someone texted me this to me today. I didn’t reply immediately. Because I know that feeling. It’s not about not understanding or wanting better. It’s that quiet fear…What if I put myself out there and still fall short? So we hold back and tell o

I noticed something interesting. When people explore something new, the first thing they look at is usually results. Who succeeded. How big it is. Whether it looks convincing. But after speaking to more people over time, I realised something else matters more. Not how big the resul

She was just sitting there, looking at her phone. Tears quietly rolling down. She looked really tired. No sound. No drama. Just silently trying to hold herself together in a crowded train. I don’t know what she’s going through. But I know that feeling. Trying so hard to keep it in. W

Do you know why we clicked? It’s funny how life works sometimes. The right people don’t come immediately. But when they do, you just feel it. Same frequency, intention and heart. I still remember when I first met my mentor. I shared honestly about my situation, I wanted a change,

I created this after spending some time asking AI about myself. Not work, not productivity but my habits, my thoughts, even what I might be avoiding. And it made me pause. Not because AI knows me but because it helped me see patterns in what I shared. Things I didn’t realise were qu

𝗘𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗼𝘆𝗲𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗲𝘁 𝘃𝘀 𝗕𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗲𝘁 Something I’ve been noticing. Sometimes it’s not that the opportunity is not suitable. It’s just that we are looking at it from a different lens. Most of us were taught to think like an employee. 𝗔𝗽𝗽𝗹𝘆 → 𝘄𝗮𝗶𝘁 → 𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗶𝗲𝘄 → 𝗵𝗼𝗽𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗰𝘁