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Self Love Theory ep.37 / / 1 Mindset Happy Million%

Have you ever heard of it?

"Where things are ours, it will be ours anyway.

Anything that is not ours, it will hurt us until we understand. "

What we should do is make ourselves happy, worthy of good love.

And the rest, who's gonna do anything to us, let him go.

# Love theory # theory # Let go # Emotional control

2025/9/3 Edited to

... Read moreในชีวิตประจำวัน การมี mindset ที่ถูกต้องเป็นกุญแจสำคัญในการสร้างความสุขที่แท้จริง โดยเฉพาะอย่างยิ่งเรื่องของการรักตัวเอง ซึ่งเป็นพื้นฐานสำคัญที่นำไปสู่ความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีและสุขภาพจิตที่สมดุล การเข้าใจว่ามีบางสิ่งที่ไม่ใช่ของเรานั้น อาจทำร้ายเราจนกว่าเราจะยอมรับและปล่อยวางได้ เป็นการเตือนใจให้เราโฟกัสกับสิ่งที่เราควบคุมได้ เช่น การพัฒนาความสุขในตัวเอง ไม่ผูกติดกับสถานการณ์หรือความสัมพันธ์ที่ไม่ส่งเสริมเรา การปล่อยวางไม่ได้หมายถึงการยอมแพ้ แต่เป็นการเลือกที่จะไม่ให้สิ่งที่ไม่ควรอยู่ในชีวิต กวนใจหรือทำให้เราตกอยู่ในภาวะเครียดหรือวิตกกังวลอีกต่อไป อีกทั้งการควบคุมอารมณ์ก็เป็นสิ่งจำเป็น ไม่ว่าจะเป็นความโกรธ ความกังวล หรือความเศร้า การฝึกฝนจิตใจให้สงบและเข้าใจอารมณ์ของตัวเองมากขึ้น จะช่วยให้อารมณ์ไม่ครอบงำการตัดสินใจของเราและทำให้เรามีชีวิตที่มีความสุขมากขึ้น สุดท้ายนี้ การรักตัวเองหมายถึงการให้ความสำคัญและค่ากับตัวเองก่อน เพื่อที่จะมีพลังและความพร้อมที่จะสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีกับผู้อื่น ความสุขจึงมาจากการยอมรับและดูแลตนเองด้วยใจดีและความรักเต็มเปี่ยม

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