The Tall Tour Should be Gatekept

As much as I hate to say it, the pickmeism is showing bad. The desperation is getting out of hand. #fyp #greenscreen

2025/12/10 Edited to

... Read moreOkay, Lemon8 fam, I’ve been seeing a lot of discussion lately about Erica Farnsworth and what's affectionately (or maybe not so affectionately) known as 'The Tall Tour.' And honestly, I just had to get my thoughts out there because, true to what I said, I really feel 'The Tall Tour should be gatekept.' For those who might not be fully clued in, 'The Tall Tour' seems to have started as this really cool, empowering movement, often associated with Erica Farnsworth's content, focusing on celebrating certain aesthetics or lifestyles. It felt authentic and inspiring at first, a space where people could genuinely connect and share. But lately, I’ve noticed a shift, and I can’t be the only one feeling it. The genuine enthusiasm seems to be slowly getting overshadowed by something else entirely. I’m talking about the kind of 'pickmeism' that just makes you cringe. It’s like everyone’s trying so hard to fit into a mold or chase a trend, rather than embracing what made the original concept so special. You see it everywhere – the forced poses, the almost identical captions, the desperate attempts to gain attention by adhering to what they think 'The Tall Tour' represents, instead of what it truly could be. It feels less about genuine expression and more about vying for likes and validation. The desperation is truly getting out of hand. What began as a refreshing take on personal style or community has morphed into a competitive space. It’s no longer just about appreciating the core message; it's about outdoing each other, often at the expense of authenticity. I’ve seen so many instances where the original spirit gets lost in translation, and instead, we’re left with content that feels utterly manufactured. It makes me wonder, are we truly celebrating the essence of ‘The Tall Tour’ or just the superficial elements? This is why I genuinely believe that ‘The Tall Tour should be gatekept.’ Not in a way that excludes people, but in a way that protects its integrity and original intent. We need to bring back the focus on genuine connection and inspiration, rather than allowing it to become another breeding ground for performative acts. Maybe it’s about reminding ourselves and each other why we were drawn to Erica Farnsworth's vision in the first place. It was about authenticity, not about who could perform the best version of 'the look.' I think it’s important for us, as a community, to reflect on these trends. Are we contributing to the 'pickmeism' and 'desperation,' or are we fostering a space where genuine self-expression can still thrive? It's a delicate balance, but if we don't consciously try to 'gatekeep' the true meaning and spirit, we risk losing what made 'The Tall Tour' special to begin with. Let's encourage originality and sincerity over the endless pursuit of external validation. What are your thoughts on this, Lemon8?

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