For the longest time, I thought having a relationship with God meant I had to be perfect. I grew up hearing people say, “GOD don’t like this” or “don’t question GOD,” do this and do that. Honestly the more I talk about it sounds like the toxic relationship I have with my mother. So for a while, I s

Loving yourself isn’t always easy, especially when life tries to humbled you. Sometimes it feels like you don’t even recognize yourself. I can’t tell you how many time I looked in the mirror and asked…Who is this girl? After everything you’ve been through, it’s easy to feel disconnected from the ve

I know people that act like being single is a bad thing. This is actually one of the best times of your life if you play it right. No unnecessary stress, no explaining yourself, no dealing with someone else’s emotional baggage just you, living your best life. Let’s talk about how to make the best o

I used to think that closure came from a final conversation the kind where they finally admit what they did, apologize sincerely, and maybe even realize what they lost. But the truth is, some people will never give you that. Some people will never acknowledge the pain they caused because it would r

I’m reading at least one book a month, and this was my January read. I know it’s February and I’m late but I just had to review it. But A Love Song for Ricki Wilde was so good that I couldn’t not talk about it. I related to this book so much. The way it was written, I ended up getting so attached t

Whew, y’all… I took a break from posting, and honestly… It felt good. No overthinking, no stressing about what to say, no trying to make everything look perfect just me, living life without the pressure of keeping up. Now that I’m easing back into it, I realize just how necessary that break was.

Healing from a narcissistic ex is no easy ride. It’s messy, it’s painful, and some days, it feels like you’ll never get past it. But let me tell you something when you really start to heal, you’ll notice something crazy. You’ll stop feeling that anger, that rage that used to bubble up every time th

Let me ask you this how intentional are you being with your life? I’m not talking about just going through the motions or doing what’s convenient. Think about the time you let someone into your life who brought more chaos than peace? Bought clothes that change colors after the 3rd wash. I mean, are

To be honest, I’ve never been good at celebrating my wins. I would hit a goal and just move on like it was no big deal. Even if it was something huge, I would barely give myself a quick “yay” before jumping to the next thing. But here’s the thing you are worth the celebration. Even if it’s just

Life can be hard. Some days it feels like we’re just trying to survive, let alone thrive. But if you take a second to think about that little version of you the kid who used to dream big and see the world with so much hope they would be so proud of you. Don’t roll your eyes, I’m talking to you.

🍋 It’s all an illusion Don’t nobody fall in love quicker than a narcissist with no house or car. A narcissist doesn’t love you they love what you can do for them. At first, they come in strong, putting on this perfect act, pretending they have it all together. They’ll tell you their ex was the pr

Alright, let’s talk about it. Relationships can be beautiful, but sometimes, they straight-up suck the life out of you if it’s with the wrong person. If you’re sitting here wondering if it’s time to bounce, let me help you out. Here are 10 signs that it’s time to pack your shit and go. 1. You’r

I know what you’re thinking how could anything good come from a toxic, narcissistic relationship? Trust me, once I got out and started healing, I realized that relationship taught me some real lessons about myself. It wasn’t easy, but I’m grateful for the growth it forced me to go through. I ha

There is a big difference between being lonely and just being bored. I used to mix the two up all the time. I would be sitting there, scrolling through my phone, feeling some type of way and thinking, “Damn, I’m so lonely.” But was I really? Nah. Half the time, I was just bored out of my mind. I p