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THINGS THAT WHITE PEOPLE NEED TO REALIZE

White people always try to say “its not that deep” or “get over it” or “we were slaves to but we don’t cry about it” but there wasn’t laws prohibiting you from being a human and you don’t have to worry about getting pulled over and not making it through the night so let’s just stop it!

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