In the biker community, yes, it's disappointing to receive DMs from those outside the culture asking for riding lessons. Such situations can be complex; many bikers take pride in the skills, lifestyle, and camaraderie associated with biking. Non-bikers often romanticize the idea of riding without understanding the intricacies involved. When approached by someone unfamiliar with the lifestyle, it's important to communicate boundaries politely. Highlight the commitment and experience needed to ride safely and the significant difference in mindset between those who casually engage with biking and those who live the lifestyle. It's essential to educate them about the fundamentals of bikers' culture, the responsibility that comes with riding, and the shared values within the community. Engaging in thoughtful discussions may foster respect and understanding. Always remember that your comfort and preferences should be prioritized, and it's acceptable to decline such invitations if they feel inappropriate.