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My heart will be prepared by living without choosing✨

📘 book I read today is "How to prepare autonomic nerves to eliminate malfunctions of adult girls" (Hiroyuki Kobayashi).

I will share my awareness from Part 4 of "Holiday / WEEKEND" among them.

* Live fulfilling the "now" (concentrate on the "now")

* Spend the night slowly (smartphone, away from work)

* Spend time in the same rhythm as usual (Let's fix the wake-up / bedtime on weekends!)

* Once a month to create a "to-do list" (goal is likely to become clear and leave in photos and notebook!)

* Autonomic nerves are prepared by organizing and decluttering (I want to throw away)

* Reduce the number of choices (I want to simplify and eliminate lost time)

💡 the work you have to choose.

This word left a strong impression on me.

It seems that people are a series of choices, whether it's in their head or not.

This makes your brain tired.

Personally, I'm going to try the following.

☑ Simplify Your Morning Clothes

☑ ︎ Stop buying in bulk and switch to a three-day plan

☑ ︎ Make a "to-do list" before going to bed = eliminate morning hesitation

☑ ︎ Reduce the amount of books → I want to work on this month 📚

Do you ever feel "choice fatigue" on the weekend?

🗓 This Year's Reading: The 50th Reading in 2025

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Study Post Morning activities Time management Reading Records # Share learning

2025/9/2 Edited to

... Read more私もこの本の内容を参考にして、週末の過ごし方を見直してみました。特に印象に残ったのは、“選択しなければならないことを減らす”という考え方です。普段の生活で何気なく行っている服選びや食事のメニュー決めだけでも、意外と脳のエネルギーを消耗していると感じます。 そこで私は朝の服選びを3パターンに限定し、服の組み合わせをあらかじめ決めることにしました。これだけで朝の準備の時間が短くなりストレスが激減しました。また、買い物も全てまとめ買いから3日分の献立を計画して買う方法に切り替え、食品の無駄も減らせて一石二鳥です。 夜はスマホや仕事から離れてゆっくり過ごし、翌日の「やることリスト」を寝る前に作るようにしました。これによって翌朝の行動がすっきり決まり、迷う時間が激減したのを感じます。さらに、不要な本やモノを断捨離することで、部屋がスッキリし心も軽くなりました。 このように「選ばない暮らし」を意識すると、心が穏やかになり自律神経のバランスも整うのが実感できます。特に週末にダラダラしてしまい生活リズムが崩れてしまいがちな方にはおすすめです。私自身もこれらの習慣を続けることで毎日がより充実し、心身ともに軽やかに過ごせるようになりました。ぜひ皆さんも試してみてはいかがでしょうか?

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