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I'm tired from paying too much attention

"How to Remove Work and Human Relationship Power for Mr. Too Polite" (by Juri Misaki)

When I saw the title,

I thought, "Oh, this might be me," and read it.

I'm working alone for free now,

Think back to when I was a company employee.

Exactly "too polite."

I read too much air

Do too much properly

Before I knew it, I was so tired.

The most impressive thing about this book was

The idea of "visualizing the mind."

When you don't know how to feel.

Than thinking

Try writing it out in a notebook.

As I write

"I didn't like this, did I?"

"I was really trying to do it."

Moyamoya is taking shape.

And one more thing, it was really good

Leave the place and move your body.

Stand up.

Stretch.

Open the window.

Breathe in the outside air.

Not the head

Loosen the body first.

People who are too proper

I tend to forget how to rest.

From "Ganbaru" today

I'm going to choose "Yurumeru."

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Too polite-san

Prepare your mind

How to face yourself

2/3 Edited to

... Read more私はかつて会社員時代、まさに“丁寧すぎるさん”で、気を抜くことが難しくいつも疲れていました。そんな時、この本で紹介されている「心を見える化する」方法に出会い、大きく助けられました。 具体的には、気持ちがモヤモヤするときにノートに思っていることを書き出してみること。頭の中で悩み続けるよりも、書くことで自分の感情や本当の思いが明確になり、自己理解が深まります。 さらに、気持ちを切り替えるためには、体を動かして外の空気を吸うことが効果的です。例えば、デスクから立ち上がって背伸びをしたり、窓を開けて新鮮な空気を感じるだけで、カチコチになっていた気持ちがゆるみやすくなります。 私自身、この方法を続けてから、仕事中の緊張や周囲への気遣いが楽になり、疲れにくくなりました。気を使いすぎて疲れてしまう人は、ぜひ試してみてほしいです。がんばるより、「ゆるめる」選択も忘れずに! また、本書のサブタイトルにある「ちゃんとの呪いから抜け出す方法」は、私の心に深く響きました。完璧を求めず無理せず、自分を労わるヒントが満載です。気を抜くことが苦手な方に、自信を持っておすすめしたい一冊です。

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