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Told her we think she’s using him

My brother has been dating his fiancée for about two years, and our parents have always been polite but distant toward her. During a family dinner, she pulled me aside and asked, “Do they not like me?”

I tried to dodge it, but she kept insisting she wanted the truth. So I finally told her our parents think she’s using my brother for his money.

She went completely quiet and left early. Now my brother’s furious, saying I “crossed a line” and ruined his engagement. But honestly, I only said what everyone in the family already says behind closed doors.

So… was I wrong for being honest when she asked?

#AskLemon8 #LetsChat #FamilyDrama

2025/10/20 Edited to

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He is an adult, stay out of his relationship.

Is she like really using him for money tho? Like making him pay for expensive things all the time and fancy dinners and materialist things? Or is it that the family doesn’t like that he provides for her? Cuz I hate when ppl get that twisted.

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