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older sister core
#aesthetic #console #psp #otaku #sister
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You can’t become an expert if you do not start. #justgetstarted #fy #unsolicitedoldersisteradvice #ibelieveinyou
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If your struggling with your “friends” find new ones. I promise the good people - your people - they’re out there. #takeupspace #fy #women #unsolicitedoldersisteradvice
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Amy Mac Do Do Do Do Do Do

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My Adulting Rules: Setting Boundaries with Family 🚫 As I navigate adulthood with my own family, I've realized the importance of setting clear boundaries with my extended family. Here are my unapologetic rules for maintaining respect and peace in our relationships. 💪 #FamilyBoundaries #Re
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Mommamite

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Follow me for more advice lol #stoprecordingstrangers #fy #unsolicitedoldersisteradvice #WHATAREWEDOINGHERE #humanconnection
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Who looks older ?
#kevoygiso
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A woman with long dark hair takes a mirror selfie, wearing a grey off-the-shoulder top, against a brick wall. Text overlay reads "unsolicited dating advice from someone whose seen some sh*t," with Lemon8 branding.
A table lamp with a dark square shade and three candle-like lights sits on a wooden table. Text overlay states, "the 'cool girl' act gets you picked, not cherished," offering dating advice, with Lemon8 branding.
A table lamp with a dark square shade and three candle-like lights sits on a wooden table. Text overlay advises, "chemistry without compatibility will turn into a painful situationship or a one sided relationship," with Lemon8 branding.
Unsolicited dating advice you should hear
#dating #mindset #mindfulness #relationships #healthy
Mina 🤍

Mina 🤍

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POV: talking to my older self
Alicia Sicz

Alicia Sicz

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A book page displays the phrase "Growing older is" followed by an ellipsis, set against a light background. The bottom left corner shows "Lemon8" and the username "@chelseyarmfield."
A book page features the title "You Deserve Your Own Love Too" and text about aging and self-love. It includes the page number "156" and author "CHELSEY ARMFIELD," with "Lemon8" and "@chelseyarmfield" at the bottom.
The cover of the book "YOU DESERVE YOUR OWN LOVE TOO" by CHELSEY ARMFIELD is shown. The title and author are in red text on a light-colored background, and the book rests on a white textured surface. "Lemon8" and "@chelseyarmfield" are at the bottom.
Growing older is…
In a world full of societal pressures to preserve our youth for as long as we can manage, I want to encourage you to see the magic & wisdom in aging. There is a healing power in knowing yourself a little deeper, year after year. Growing older is a gift. Don’t let them fool you. 🤍 B00K: You D
ChelseyArmfield

ChelseyArmfield

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Giving Body! Fashion forward for older women.
Brunch with the girls! Did I do good? #fullfigured #bbw #fashionover50 #fashioninspo #over50fashion
Tonyaslifestyle

Tonyaslifestyle

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A refrigerator shelf filled with Mountain Dew bottles, including a 3-liter bottle, and cans, alongside other beverages, reflecting a 2000s older brother aesthetic.
A black Monster Energy drink can and a bag of Takis Zombie chips rest on a skateboard, with a person's jeans visible in the background.
A pepperoni pizza in a box, two Mountain Dew cans, a bag of Doritos, and various dipping sauces, depicting a classic 2000s snack setup.
Older brother core
#olderbrothercore #olderbrother #2000snostalgia #nostalgia #2000s
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futigeraero05

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Real Talk: Gym Girl Edition
In case you didn’t know… not every woman’s goal in the gym is to get skinny!  I recently had a man look at me and tell me that I should consider working more cardio into my gym routine, and then proceeded to say I needed to work out more like (insert super skinny gym influencer). While this “adv
nicole ✨

nicole ✨

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story time lol idk how to feel about this unsolicited opinion 🤨 #gymtok #gym
chandygirl

chandygirl

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The book cover for 'Vera Wong's Unsolicited Advice for Murderers' by Jesse Q. Sutanto is displayed against a Chinatown street scene with red lanterns. Text overlays highlight the book's themes: an elderly, witty, and funny Chinese woman, quirky characters, a cozy mystery, and a tea shop in Chinatown, alongside a 4.5-star review.
Vera Wong’s Unsolicited Advice For Murderers 🧧🥡🥢
book review | Vera Wong’s Unsolicited Advice For Murderers by Jesse Q. Sutanto 🫖 my rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️✨ Setting: San Francisco, California 🌁 Vera Wong, an elderly Chinese tea shop owner, finds a dead body in her store. She steals a flash drive off the victim and decides to solve the murder h
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chelsea

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that one friend when you mention getting older
they just wanna die😭
ConnorHessee

ConnorHessee

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a TINI bit older 🍸🎂🫒🤎
#birthdayaesthetic #birthdayvibes🎉 #atinibitolder #espressomartinibday
Cosette Vieira

Cosette Vieira

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Hard Truths of a Single Mom
1. Financial Strain Supporting a household on one income is tough. You may need to juggle work, childcare, and bills, often with little room for emergencies or luxuries. 2. Limited Time for Yourself Between parenting, work, and household responsibilities, personal time is scarce. Self-care often
Jess_skye

Jess_skye

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Birthday Idea - A Tini Bit Older🍸💕
#birthday #birthdaypartyideas #birthdaypartyinspo
Shayypaz🩷🐚✨

Shayypaz🩷🐚✨

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A person with glasses smiles while holding three books: 'The Third Gilmore', 'A Court of Mist and Fury' by Sarah J. Maas, and 'In the Weeds'. The image is titled 'FAVORITE BOOKS OF 2024'.
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A hand holds the book cover for 'In the Weeds' by B.K. Borison, described as a favorite romance book, a perfect small-town, grumpy x sunshine romance, categorized as Romance, Fiction, New Adult.
✨Favorite Books from 2024✨📖
Here is to another year of finding more book favorites, five star reads, book shopping, and endless tbrs! 🥳📚 📖 Favorite books: - vera wong’s unsolicited advice for murders - in the weeds - never lie - a court of mist and fury - the very secret society of irregular witches - the third gilmo
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Alessandra | Booktok 📚

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A smiling woman with long red hair and green eyes, wearing a green collared shirt, takes a selfie outdoors. She has a lip piercing and is celebrating her 30th birthday, as indicated by the text overlay "Happy 30th Birthday to me!!".
✨ Getting Older Doesn’t Have to be a Bad Thing
I always used to look at get older as a bad thing because everyone I know is younger than I. But now as I’m going through this healing journey I’m starting to realize it’s not a bad thing at all. It’s okay to embrace who I am, and 30 isn’t old at all. If anything this opens up a new chapter for me
🩷 Harmony 🩷

🩷 Harmony 🩷

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A hand holds a round mirror reflecting bare tree branches, with the title "What Really Happens When People Give Unsolicited Advice By Camille Z." The image includes branding for Lemon8 and The Clairame Magazine.
Hate unsolicited advice? Here’s an analysis
Unsolicited advice is rarely welcomed. And it’s rarely about the recipient either. Aside from the common reasons that advice-enthusiasts may seek validation, attention, or process their own unresolved needs and emotions, it can also come from their mindset, values, early experiences, or a lack
theclairamemag

theclairamemag

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Getting older sucks!
Jeremiah Jones

Jeremiah Jones

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A pregnant person takes a mirror selfie, showing their baby bump. The image is overlaid with the title text, "What no one tells you New born babies," introducing an article about unexpected aspects of the newborn stage.
A newborn baby, wearing a patterned sleepsuit and hat, lies on its back with a pacifier. Text overlays highlight key points about newborns: "All they'll do is eat and sleep," "Your relationships will change," "How important sleep safe is," and "Fed is best as long as baby eats."
A baby lies on its stomach in a bassinet, next to a black and white soft book. Overlaid text lists more insights about parenting a newborn: "There are a lot of doctors appointments," "People will push your boundaries," and "People will tell you how to parent."
What no one tells you about new born babies!
I find myself grieving my boys’ new born stage all the time😭 I miss how little they were. As I think back to that time I started thinking about how much I learned and experienced that I wasn’t warned about it able to prepare for. I wanted to share my thoughts! 🍼 All babies do ate eat and sleep:
Mariana • sahm

Mariana • sahm

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I LIKE MY GUYS A LIL BIT OLDER 🤫😉
#colbybrock
🧸Elle🧸

🧸Elle🧸

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A tini bit older 🫘☕️🍸
My first lemon8 video! A tini bit older is the most fun cake trend yet! 🫶🏼 #cakeideas #cakeinspiration #cakestyle #espressomartinicake #atinibitolder
m i k

m i k

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A hand holds an older Kandi project, a mushroom made of red and grey pony beads. The mushroom features a red cap with grey spots and a grey stem, showcasing a creative beadwork design.
A hand displays an older Kandi project, a bracelet or chain featuring pretzel-themed hearts made from alternating brown and beige pony beads. A bead organizer is visible in the background.
A hand holds an older Kandi project, a 3D heart made from red and pink pony beads. The heart has a hollow center, demonstrating intricate beadwork.
Older Kandi projects I made ❤️❤️❤️
Jaster

Jaster

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My icks as a first time mom
I could go on and on about things that I hear all the time especially from the older generation and all the time it’s unsolicited advice 🤦🏽‍♀️ Things that are outdated now. I think that the one I hate the most it’s the passive aggressive comments especially after having a difficult day and bein
Lifestyle | Motherhood 🥥🤎

Lifestyle | Motherhood 🥥🤎

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Handing Out Roses to Older People!🥹❤️
Joshlilj

Joshlilj

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Getting older baby!
The years fly by in the blink of an eye! #gettingolder #70s #80s #90s
RMEnsign70 ❌ 🇺🇸

RMEnsign70 ❌ 🇺🇸

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Will ALWAYS advocate for my baby boy, living with ARFID has been one of the toughest things. Watching him go through the years & people not understanding his heartbreaking. As he gets older it seems to get much worse 🥺 praying for help soon! #arfidawareness #arfideatingdisorder #pickyeater #
Des ⚡️🃏♠️

Des ⚡️🃏♠️

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Two women in white dresses and cowboy hats spin in a grassy field, with the title 'tips from your older sister' overlaid.
A person wearing a sheet mask and holding a drink, illustrating the advice to 'TAKE CARE OF YOUR SKIN' by removing makeup and drinking water.
A group of friends hugging by a lake at sunset, accompanying the advice to 'SURROUND YOURSELF WITH GOOD PEOPLE' and choose friends wisely.
advice from an older sister 🫶
as an older sister, here is some advice i’ve gotten from others or learned over the years!! i know i have a lot of younger followers so i wanted to share ❤️ younger girls - ask questions in the comments & older girls - share your wisdom!! let’s help each other out!! #sisteradvice #adviceforg
ella 🪩🛼💐

ella 🪩🛼💐

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Just a Tini-bit older
I need a theme for my birthday. A Tini bit older would be great 🍸🫒 what yall think ? #birthdaythemeideas #birthdayideas #martini
Bri_TheOne

Bri_TheOne

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My ICKS as a MOM 😅
What are your top picks as a parent? Here are some of mine. - Why are you feeding baby that way? First it was judgment of breastfeeding/pumping vs a bottle and formula, now it’s baby fed weaning vs purées. As a parent I’m going to do what works best for me and my kid. I overproduce breast mi
Melissa.Feekin

Melissa.Feekin

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“A tiny bit older” Martini 🍸 🫒 heart shaped …
#cakeideas #lemon8challenge #cakespiration #bayarea
✨🍰💙🌷Lea Postreria🌷💙🍰✨

✨🍰💙🌷Lea Postreria🌷💙🍰✨

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Two best friends, one with tattoos, smile while standing outdoors under a tree on a sunny day, holding green bags, likely after apple picking. The image has 'Bestie' written across the top, celebrating their long-standing friendship.
🌸 getting older is sad sometimes…
⏰ we get older, we get busy, we move around….& before you know it YEARS have gone by. ❣️ Which can make me sad, but it also makes me appreciate each moment I get to have with loved ones….& be thankful 🙏🏻 I have them. Context: We met at ages 13 & 15 and have been friends for 24 y
TrailerParkTails

TrailerParkTails

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Two young boys sit on a wooden dock, looking out at a calm pond surrounded by trees. The image has a text overlay that reads "Boundaries I have for my kids! Part 1" in large, outlined letters, with the Lemon8 logo and username at the bottom.
A child is seen inside a green tunnel slide on a playground. Text overlays describe two boundaries: "THEY DON'T HAVE TO HUG OR KISS YOU" and "IF I SAY NO, IT MEANS NO," each with a purple explanatory box. The Lemon8 logo is at the bottom left.
Two young boys are on a playground with metal equipment. Text overlays present two boundaries: "NO SLEEP OVERS" and "YOU CAN'T LEAVE THEM UNATTENDED," each accompanied by a purple box detailing the rule. The Lemon8 logo is at the bottom left.
Boundaries I have for my kids! Part 1
I wanted to share some boundaries I’ve set for my two boys 2 and 4! Setting boundaries is a healthy way to make sure your children are getting the care you think they deserve and to keep others from interfering with your parenting. It can be hard to set boundaries, but when it comes to your childre
Mariana • sahm

Mariana • sahm

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Perks of dating older women…
#how men perceive women #olderwomen #animation #comedy #relatable
St. Pappi

St. Pappi

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Older woman can gain muscle. Macros & movement ✨
Here to show you what’s possible after 55 #possibilities #women #macros #movement
kittyrebellion

kittyrebellion

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The dark side of not having children by choice
I'm 32 years old and married. I met my partner when we were 20, and we started dating when we were 21. At that point in my life, I was 99% sure that being a mother wasn't in my plans. But hey, what do you know about life and what you want in your 20s, right? Or at least that's what they
Cristina

Cristina

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A book page with the phrase "Growing older is" in a serif font, followed by ellipses. The bottom left corner shows "lemon8" and "@chelseyarmfield".
A book page titled "You Deserve Your Own Love Too," defining growing older as a journey of self-discovery and self-love. It includes the author's name, Chelsey Armfield, and page number 156.
The cover of the book "YOU DESERVE YOUR OWN LOVE TOO" by Chelsey Armfield, featuring red text on a light-colored background, resting on a white textured surface.
Read this if getting older scares you—
So many of us fear getting older. Society paints aging as a loss of value or an expiration date—but this couldn’t be any further from the truth. Yes, your life may change shape along the way but you also inherit wisdom with each year. Not to mention, it is a privilege to age; there are so many peop
ChelseyArmfield

ChelseyArmfield

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A vintage teal Ford Bronco with palm trees under a blue sky, featuring the text "older country songs I still love," serving as the cover for a throwback country music playlist.
A Spotify screen displaying the song "Deeper Than the Holler" by Randy Travis, with album art showing him sitting on logs, part of a throwback country music playlist.
A Spotify screen featuring "That Ain't My Truck" by Rhett Akins, with album art showing him smiling and holding a hat, included in a collection of older country songs.
older country songs
Here’s some of my favorite throwback country songs that I hope you love too! Save this playlist for when you need a refresher. Shania will always be my favorite from then! 🩵 #countrymusic #throwback
Shayna

Shayna

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Writing tips
I’ve written 2 books and a screenplay. Throughout the process, I’ve received a lot of unsolicited, and requested, advice. You’ve heard these before, but here’s how I used them. Here are a few things I would have told my younger self starting her writing journey: 1) Write for the wastebask
C.J. Rhinehart💫Fantasy Author

C.J. Rhinehart💫Fantasy Author

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Looking through my mom’s older makeup ✨
#makeup #2000s #2000saesthetics #y2k #throwback
Arianna Nicole

Arianna Nicole

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Older than Google!
Who else is older than Google?!? #chiefnitro #google #gym #workout #gettingold
ChiefNitro

ChiefNitro

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