i have asian eyes!!!

so according to some random hateful lemon8er, i force myself to have asain eyes???

so as context, the ORIGINAL post was about black women and the replier felt butthurt because it wasn't about her... so somehow, my eyes get mentioned and i was told i was squinting. a lot of people tell me the same thing even irl and i feel like it's very disrespectful to equate having small/narrow eyes to asian... asian people have eyes of all shapes and sizes as does everyone else. generalizing and eye shape/size to one race is essentially wrong. i grew up insecure about my eyes as it is and actually tried to make them look bigger and ended up looking a FOOL so now ive come to accept it and love myself the way that i am. like sorry i was born like this??? 😭

anyways, these pictures make me realize how much i look like my dad and his dad 😭

#black #eyes #younger #Lemon8Diary #storytime #Lemon8 #embracevulnerability #lemon8creator #blackgirllemon8 #insecurities

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... Read moreIn today's society, the issue of body image and racial stereotypes remains a contentious topic. Many individuals, particularly those from diverse backgrounds, often grapple with insecurities related to their appearance. This narrative resonates deeply with a significant number of people who have been subjected to comments that pigeonhole them based on their ethnic features. For instance, the perception that specific eye shapes are exclusively Asian overlooks the diversity within the Asian community itself, as well as within broader ethnic presentations. Exploring personal experiences like these highlights the need for greater awareness and understanding of race and identity. It's vital to promote body positivity and foster acceptance of all features. Instead of allowing stereotypes to define us, we must celebrate our unique characteristics. Using platforms like Lemon8 can serve as a powerful means of self-expression, allowing users to showcase their individuality while connecting with like-minded people. Additionally, the conversation around inclusivity in representation can empower individuals to redefine societal norms. By sharing stories and celebrating differences, we can inspire others to break free from the constraints of traditional beauty standards. Engaging in discussions that challenge stereotypes about physical attributes can lead to a more accepting and diverse perspective on beauty. Ultimately, acceptance begins with self-love. Embracing one’s unique features fosters confidence that resonates beyond personal experiences. When we celebrate our differences, we contribute to a culture that values authenticity and encourages vulnerability. This journey toward self-acceptance not only strengthens our inner selves but also creates a ripple effect that challenges biases in our communities.

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I have polish in me which gives me the "asian" eyes in some photos. They need to understand that those eyes aren't specifically asian, that many races and ethics have them. And that you cant help if you have em

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