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What happened when my mother-in-law hoped well. 🥹🪴

Who found this house?

I wish my mother-in-law would do this for you.

Especially with trees. Sometimes find trees to plant.

Sometimes, cover the ground with coconut bracts

And this incident happened when we were not home. 🏡😂

Mother also found something to do by cutting the branches of the Korean banyan tree.

That the project planted to the full size of the walls of the house.

From a bush to a trim, hopefully a tree wall.

It turned into an emaciated banyan tree. All the leaves below disappeared. 🥹

Because I understand that cutting it clear, hahahaha 🌲🌴

My son almost cried. Mom!!!Each tree grows differently.

Flowering, different leaves, can do the same

That's it... and then what?

It'll break again. 😆🪴

Who found this house? How to fix?

# Lemon 8 invites # Life problems # Double life # First house # Home experience

5/20 Edited to

... Read moreหลายคนสงสัยเหมือนกันว่า “ต้นไทร อ่านว่าอะไร” เพราะเห็นเขียนบ่อยทั้งไทร ไทรเกาหลี ไทรย้อย ฯลฯ ส่วนตัวเราอ่านมาตลอดว่า “ไทร” (เสียงไทยคำเดียว อ่านว่า ไซ/ไทร์ แบบสั้น ๆ ว่า “ไทร”) เวลาออกเสียงก็พูดว่า “ต้น-ไทร” หรือ “ไทร-เกาหลี” ได้เลย ไม่ต้องเติมพยางค์อะไรเพิ่มค่ะ คำว่า “ไทร” มักใช้เป็นคำนาม เช่น - “บ้านนี้ปลูกไทรเกาหลีทำรั้ว” - “ต้นไทรให้ร่มเงาดีมาก” - “อย่าตัดไทรช่วงหน้าร้อนจัด เดี๋ยวช็อกง่าย” แล้วพอพูดถึง “ไทรเกาหลี” ที่บ้านเรา (ทำเป็นรั้ว/กำแพงต้นไม้) จากประสบการณ์ที่เจอจริง ๆ คือ คนที่ไม่คุ้นกับต้นไม้จะเข้าใจว่า “ตัดให้โล่ง ๆ เดี๋ยวแตกใหม่” ซึ่งบางทีไทรก็แตกใหม่จริง แต่ทรงพุ่มและความสวยงามอาจเสียรูปไปพักใหญ่ โดยเฉพาะถ้าตัดกิ่งล่างออกจนโล่งเตียน เหลือใบแค่ด้านบนแบบที่บ้านเราเจอ ถ้าใครเจอสถานการณ์ไทรเกาหลีโดนตัดหนัก ๆ แบบนี้ สิ่งที่เราทำ/ตั้งใจทำเพื่อพยุงต้น (แนวดูแลแบบคนปลูกจริงในบ้าน) มีประมาณนี้ค่ะ 1) ใจเย็นก่อน แล้วดู “ความแข็งแรงของต้น” ว่ายังมีใบเหลือพอให้สังเคราะห์แสงไหม ถ้าเหลือใบน้อยมาก อาจต้องให้เวลาฟื้น ไม่เร่งตัดซ้ำ 2) งดตัดแต่งเพิ่มสักพัก รอให้แตกยอดใหม่ก่อน ค่อยคุมทรงทีหลัง เพราะการตัดซ้ำ ๆ จะยิ่งทำให้ต้นเครียด 3) รดน้ำให้สม่ำเสมอ แต่ไม่แฉะ โดยเฉพาะช่วงแดดแรง สนามหญ้า/รอบโคนอาจแห้งไว (บ้านเรามีกาบมะพร้าวคลุมดิน ช่วยเก็บความชื้นได้ระดับหนึ่ง) 4) ถ้าจะใส่ปุ๋ย เลือกแบบอ่อน ๆ และไม่โหมทันที เราจะเน้นบำรุงดินให้รากเดินก่อน แล้วค่อยเสริมปุ๋ยตามอาการ 5) ทำความเข้าใจกับคนในบ้านแบบนุ่ม ๆ ว่า “ต้นไม้แต่ละชนิดโตต่างกัน ตัดเหมือนกันไม่ได้” บ้านเราคือบทเรียนชัดมาก ตัดทีเดียวทรงกำแพงต้นไม้ที่ตั้งใจไว้หายไปเลย สรุปคือ คำอ่าน “ไทร” ไม่ยาก แต่การดูแลไทรเกาหลีให้เป็นกำแพงต้นไม้ต้องค่อย ๆ ตัดแต่งให้เป็นชั้นและมีใบด้านล่างไว้พอสมควร ใครมีทริคฟื้นไทรเกาหลีหลังโดนตัดหนัก ๆ มาแชร์กันได้นะคะ บ้านนี้กำลังลุ้นให้แตกใบใหม่อยู่เหมือนกันค่ะ

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