I’m the calm and the chaos

The open arms and the slammed door

I’ll make you feel safe

And still question everything

I cry when no one’s looking

Then wipe my face like nothing happened

I pour love into people

Even when they forget to pour it back

I’ve been too much

And never enough

I’ve bent backwards just to be seen

And still felt invisible

I hold tenderness in one hand

And fire in the other

I’m not here to be liked

I’m here to be real

I’ve said the wrong thing

At the right time

Loved people who didn’t stay

And stayed when I should’ve walked

I wear guilt like a second skin

But I still show up

Still give

Still try

Even when I’m running on empty

I’m not built for perfect

I’m built for surviving

For rising

For loving

For falling apart

And trying again anyway

I’m human

All the contradictions

All the softness

All the rage

All the heart

I’m not simple

But I am true

#fyp #poem #poetry #imhuman #behappy #justsmile #imme #justbeyou

2025/7/19 Edited to

... Read moreThis poem eloquently delves into the complex nature of human emotions and the delicate balance between opposing forces within us. Themes such as safety contrasted with doubt, tenderness alongside fire, and the ongoing struggle with guilt and invisibility highlight the multifaceted human experience. From a psychological perspective, embracing these contradictions is essential for emotional well-being. Recognizing that feelings of being "too much" and "never enough" are common human experiences can foster self-compassion and reduce feelings of isolation. The poem’s emphasis on showing up and trying despite running on empty speaks to human resilience and the drive to keep rising after setbacks. Such poetry resonates widely because it reflects authentic emotions that many people encounter but rarely articulate. The hashtags associated with the poem (#fyp, #poem, #poetry, #imhuman, #behappy) indicate its relevance in communities seeking self-expression and emotional connection. Reading and reflecting on poetry that embraces vulnerability helps improve mental health by validating emotional complexity, encouraging acceptance of imperfections, and promoting genuine self-expression. It can also inspire readers to acknowledge their own inner contradictions and the continuous effort involved in loving, surviving, and growing. In summary, this poem serves as a powerful reminder that being human means embracing all aspects of ourselves with honesty and courage, celebrating not simplicity or perfection, but truth and authenticity.

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