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Never thought to be in a fat spot until discouraged 😭

I realized... 20 pounds.

From 53 to 70 over.

It's a number that I never thought I'd see in this life.

Every time I look in the mirror, my heart asks repeatedly.

"How was released to this point?"

It didn't come up in one day.

But it gradually accumulates from stress.

From eating according to emotions.

From the words "I'll start tomorrow."

Honestly, I don't have the strength to exercise right now.

It's all heavy, whole body, whole heart.

In the past, it was reduced for a moment.

Control a little, exercise a little, the weight moves.

But this round is not the same

It was too heavy to feel exhausted.

The more stressed, the more pressured yourself.

Even more to eat, like in the same cycle.

Over 70 is the fattest spot in life.

Uncomfortable. Unsure.

Some days blame yourself very hard.

But deep down, I still want to feel good about myself.

Probably not reducing as fast as before

But wanting to reduce the way that you don't have to hurt yourself anymore

# Peak story # Women's health # Talk about health # Healthy with lemon8 # lemon 8 diary

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