i used to tell ppl i had a friend named cam that passed away IT WAS THAT DEEP FOR ME. I WAS GRIEVINF FOR THIRTT DAYS AND NIGHTS DONT TEXR
Losing someone you deeply care about can be one of the most challenging emotional experiences in life. The intense grief described here, lasting for thirty days and nights, highlights how profoundly loss can affect our daily functioning and mental well-being. In many cases, people may feel compelled to create stories or use metaphors, such as sharing about a fictional friend like "Cam," as a way to process their feelings and explain their emotional state to others. During such times, it’s common to withdraw from communication, as indicated by the plea to "DONT TEXR," reflecting a need for solitude to manage overwhelming emotions. This behavior underscores the personal nature of grief and how it can interfere with usual social interactions. From my own experience, allowing yourself to fully feel the pain without rushing the healing process can be profoundly helpful. An unexpected trigger—such as watching a video accompanied by a particular song related to Campbell Saunders from Degrassi—can resurface memories and emotions tied to grief, often intensifying the experience. Music and media are powerful tools that link us to memories and past relationships, sometimes bringing comfort, other times reopening wounds. Recognizing and accepting these emotional responses helps in gradually regaining emotional balance. Grief is highly individual, and what works for one person may not suit another. However, seeking support through trusted friends, counselors, or support groups can provide avenues for shared understanding and relief. Importantly, patience and kindness toward oneself during mourning are essential, allowing healing to unfold naturally over time.



































