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How do five people like this talk to work?

# Lemon 8 Club # Club, read, write

Share different ways of speaking with each other, some hilarious, some not like to talk, so you have to adjust the conversation. This book divides the conversation partners into five large groups:

1.Highly confident / Bossy = Speak fast, confident, listen only to want to hear, revalue the other

❌ don't like to talk. I want to get to the point.

✅ talk about the benefits he can get, answer the conclusion first by reason.

✅ Or do you like to ask for advice from what you talked about?

2. Good habits / gentle / listening / not refusing directly

= Not good at making decisions

❌ Don't rush the tempo.

✅ him to make a hasty decision with the words we thought of first, and then with what do you say? "

Like together, cut the heart

3. Analyst / still / detail = This group likes to get into the boss group, but more discreet.

❌ shouldn't tell gossip, jokes.

✅ Notice what you like, drill that.

✅ Say it in a composite / tell me how many things to say, like, "I have three things....."

4.Vivid / Humor / Reaction = Enjoy talking / use feelings before reason

❌ Don't just use logic to lack emotion.

✅ the technique is exaggerated. Over.

5. Nervous / considerate / not commenting-demanding = not commenting / not making good decisions

❌ Don't be too stimulating / urgent.

✅ talk slowly after him, keep quiet for him to kick at once.

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... Read moreจากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว การรู้จักปรับวิธีพูดตามลักษณะของคู่สนทนาเป็นกุญแจสำคัญที่ช่วยให้การสื่อสารราบรื่นมากขึ้น เช่นกับคนมั่นใจสูง (Bossy) ที่มักพูดเร็วและไม่ชอบเล่นบทสนทนายืดยาว เราจึงควรเน้นให้ข้อมูลที่เป็นประโยชน์และสรุปเรื่องราวอย่างชัดเจนติดอันดับแรก แล้วตามด้วยเหตุผลประกอบ เพื่อไม่เสียเวลาของเขา สำหรับคนที่นิสัยดีและอ่อนโยน เขาอาจลังเลตอนตัดสินใจ ดังนั้นการให้เวลาพวกเขาคิดและถามความคิดเห็นต่อร่วมกันจะช่วยให้รู้สึกว่าได้มีส่วนร่วมในการตัดสินใจอย่างแท้จริง นักวิเคราะห์หรือคนที่ชอบพินิจพิเคราะห์จะชอบรายละเอียดและความชัดเจน ทุกครั้งที่สื่อสารควรเตรียมเนื้อหาเป็นข้อ ๆ และหลีกเลี่ยงเรื่องซุบซิบนินทา เพื่อความน่าเชื่อถือและรักษาความสนใจ ส่วนคนที่สดใสชอบความสนุกสนาน การเล่าเรื่องแบบเกินจริงนิด ๆ หรือเล่าเรื่องให้มีอารมณ์ร่วมจะทำให้พวกเขารู้สึกเชื่อมโยงและสนุกกับบทสนทนา แต่ควรหลีกเลี่ยงตรรกะล้วน ๆ ที่ทำให้บรรยากาศดูเคร่งเครียด สุดท้าย คนเนิบ ๆ หรือขี้เกรงใจมักไม่แสดงความเห็นหรือกล้าแสดงออก เราควรใจเย็น พูดช้า ๆ และไม่เร่งรีบ ให้อิสระในการคิดและตอบกลับตามจังหวะของเขา อย่างการเงียบเป็นพัก ๆ ก็ช่วยให้พวกเขารู้สึกสบายและเปิดใจมากขึ้น เคล็ดลับเหล่านี้ช่วยพัฒนาทักษะการพูดคุยให้เหมาะสมกับคนแต่ละประเภท ทำให้สามารถสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีกว่าและแก้ปัญหาความเข้าใจผิดได้อย่างมีประสิทธิภาพมากขึ้นจริง ๆ

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