Being a mother…

Becoming a mother is something you can’t be taught. You kind of need to figure it out all on your own. And if you’re lucky you have an awesome partner to help. I am one of the lucky ones. But it’s still hard. You loose yourself along the way. And as your children get older you start to think of who you use to be before them and how to get back to that person. I still have young kids 12,8 and 5. I have decided it is time to start working on myself little by little to find myself again. With taking them to school, picking them up, all the doctors appointments and sports game. Then there’s the suppers, baths and just making sure they have what they need. Making sure the house is clean. You just need to make sure you take care of you. I wouldn’t change a single thing about #motherhood. I am blessed and love my little ladies with my whole heart🖤

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2024/5/15 Edited to

... Read moreMotherhood is a beautiful yet challenging journey that transforms your identity. Many mothers find themselves enveloped in the responsibilities of nurturing their children, often leading to a sense of losing their own identity. This phenomenon, often referred to as 'Mommy Identity Crisis,' is common. It reminds women of the importance of self-care and personal growth while juggling the demands of family life. To navigate this terrain, consider setting aside time for hobbies, exercise, or even quiet reflection. Connecting with other mothers through forums or local groups can also provide invaluable support and share experiences. Remember, nurturing oneself is crucial for being an effective parent—it's not selfish, it's necessary. Acknowledge these feelings and explore activities that bring joy back into your life. You're not alone in your journey; many seek to balance their roles as mothers while rediscovering who they are. Let's engage in discussions that celebrate our journeys and empower each other! Share your story with #motherhood, as it could inspire others, creating a community of understanding and support.

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