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Books, know how to control people. Control people.😍âœĻ

Books, know how to control people. Control people.

Written by Patricia Evans.

This book doesn't teach you to control anyone.

But teach you to "know" the person who is controlling you.

And the very strong truth is...

People control people. They don't yell in their faces.

He controls through quiet words, misrepresentations, and makes you doubt yourself.

The book explains that "control" often comes in the form of Verbal & Emotional Abuse.

Which is more dangerous than shouting or using force because it causes the victim to gradually lose confidence.

What the book describes very clearly:

Control people often make you feel "guilty all the time."

He will distort your words (Gaslight)

He will devalue and make you feel like you're "overthinking."

He doesn't want equal relations but wants power.

And the heartbreaking sentence is

The man who controls you doesn't want to understand you. He wants you to obey.

# ControllingPeople

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# Gaslighting

# SelfAwareness

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The book cover for 'Make Your Brain Your B*tch' by Reese Owen, with a dark blue background and bold white and yellow text.
Books for Social Anxiety: Part One 📚ðŸĶ‹
Hey there! ðŸ‘‹ðŸ― Some of you have been asking me for book suggestions that helped me cope with my social anxiety, so here they are! Here is what I benefited from reading each book. These books helped me through my biggest insecurity. I hope that this helps! I want you to know that I’m here and you’re
Camille Dixon

Camille Dixon

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The book cover for 'The Art of Seduction' by Robert Greene, featuring a vertical pink oval on a black background with a gold bestseller seal.
The book cover for 'the feminine' by Mia Sanaa, displaying a stylized yellow leopard on a pink background with vertical lighter pink stripes.
DARK PSYCHOLOGY BOOKS YOU SHOULDN’T KNOW
#darkfeminine #siren #feminineenergy #psychology #healing
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InternetHealer ðŸ§Ą

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A collage of six marketing book covers with their titles, authors, and descriptions: Influence, Building a Story Brand, This is Marketing, One Million Followers, Atomic Habits, and Marketing Made Simple.
A collage of six marketing book covers with their titles, authors, and descriptions: Hooked, How to Win Friends & Influence People, The Gap and the Gain, The 22 Immutable Laws of Marketing, Contagious, and Epic Content Marketing.
12 Marketing/Biz Books You Need to Read in 2024 💌
One of my top New Years resolutions is to up my reading my game! 💌📚 My goal is to read 1 book/month all of 2024. Here are my 12 picks for any marketer looking for there next good read! I compiled these as a mix of my personal favorites that have stuck with me (atomic habits and influence hav
keeks ðŸĶ‹

keeks ðŸĶ‹

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Women books 📚
💕 books on becoming a better woman! 💕
🌷 Ashley 🌷

🌷 Ashley 🌷

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Barnes & Noble Banned Books Edition ðŸšŦ📚
If it’s banned, it’s probably worth reading, right? Twice a week, my daughter and I visit Barnes & Noble. This week, we binge-read the banned book section. Have you ever read any of these books? Here’s a summary of each one and the reasons they’ve been banned. 1. Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bra
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𝐊𝐄𝐘𝐎𝐍𝐍𝐀âĶ

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Books you should read if you’re a parent 💕
#Lemon8Diary #lemon8bookclub #bookaesthetic #booksoflemon8 #booksonlemon8 #parentsoflemon8 #breakinggenerationalcurses #healingtrauma #breakingthecycle #itstartswithyou
Ja’Naiyah

Ja’Naiyah

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Books to control your thoughts
My brain used to feel like a never-ending group chat I couldn’t mute. 💎 Overthinking every decision, replaying embarrassing moments from years ago, stressing about things that hadn’t even happened yet. It was exhausting. ðŸ˜Ū‍ðŸ’Ļ I thought the solution was to just “stop thinking so much” (as if it we
Meredith Jao

Meredith Jao

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An iPad displays a book titled 'The Body Keeps the Score', with a stylus poised for annotation. Text overlays promote reading books for free on an iPad, emphasizing annotation features. A coffee cup is in the background.
An iPad shows the Internet Archive website, displaying 'The Body Keeps the Score' for download. Text highlights downloading book PDFs from sites like Internet Archive and Project Gutenberg.
A hand holds an iPad displaying the PDF cover of 'The Body Keeps the Score'. An arrow points to the 'Open in Books' option, illustrating how to open downloaded PDFs in the Books app.
How to read books for free on your ipad!
Ready to dive into the world of books without spending a dime? 📚âœĻ Here’s how you can read books for free on your iPad and even annotate them! 1. Find Free Books: Download book PDFs from websites like Internet Archive and Project Gutenberg. These platforms offer a vast collection of books availa
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Ayesha 🍋

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A snow-covered car with a heart drawn in the snow on its hood. Overlaid text describes the first tactic: "1. Nod slowly while asking questions." A Lemon8 watermark is at the bottom.
A close-up of a snow-covered pine branch against a snowy background. Overlaid text describes the second tactic: "2. Say" remember when we discussed this last time ?" A Lemon8 watermark is at the bottom.
How to flip control
I have psychological studies. And I have shared what I learned if you look I have more content.For the one saying it’s manipulation it’s domination it’s flipping the control of the person that’s manipulating you. For examples spouse. Boyfriend or girlfriend even coworkers or boss It’s the way the m
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💋cheilymar vega💋

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A bookshelf filled with various books, overlaid with text "BOOKS TO BREAK ANY BAD HABITS IN JUST 1 WEEKS" and crossed-out bad habits like staying up late, procrastinating, eating junk food, and scrolling for hours.
The book cover for "The Power of Habit" by Charles Duhigg, featuring a rat in a hamster wheel. Overlays explain that most actions are automatic and the book helps understand and change daily patterns.
The book cover for "The Craving Mind" by Judson Brewer. Overlays discuss why people are addicted to bad habits and how the book explains cravings and brain wiring to outsmart them.
Books to break bad habits
You ever catch yourself doing the same bad habits over and over, even when you KNOW they’re bad? ðŸĪĶ‍♀ïļ Scrolling for hours, procrastinating, eating junk food, staying up late—been there, done that. And every time, I’d tell myself, *“I’ll stop tomorrow.”* Spoiler: I didn’t 😅 Then I picked up these
Meredith Jao

Meredith Jao

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Romance books releasing in March 🗓ïļ
#romance âœĻ #books #bookstoread #bookstobuy #romancewithatwist
Yami ðŸ“šðŸŠą

Yami ðŸ“šðŸŠą

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3 books to earn f**k you money ðŸĪ‘
Earning money is hard, but knowing how to control it is way harder. I found some amazing resources that totally changed the game! First, I realized I needed a clear plan and some tough love (sometimes we all need a kick in the pants, right?). Then, I learned how much our mindset actually affects
Meredith Jao

Meredith Jao

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Books to read to get ahead of 99% of people
Feeling like a hot mess express? 🚂ðŸ’Ļ You're not alone. We've all been there. But it's time to hit the brakes and take control of your mind and emotions. These books are your chill pill, communication coach, and reality check all rolled into one. Let's ditch the drama and embrace some
Winnie.social.media.manager

Winnie.social.media.manager

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A title card in a bookstore setting reads "dark academia BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS" in black boxes, with various books visible on shelves in the background.
A hand holds the book "Lolita" by Vladimir Nabokov, a 50th Anniversary Edition, with a text overlay discussing its controversial plot about a grown man and a 12-year-old girl.
A hand holds "The Briar Book of the Dead" by A.G. Slatter, a red book with gold and black skeletal designs, with a text overlay describing its witchy plot about Ellie.
dark academia books to check out 📚🎓🏛ïļ
i’ve been into dark academia books for a while now but rarely have the time to sit down and get myself into the depth of the world that’s always created. these were all on a table display at barnes and noble for dark academia vibes :) ⭐ïļ lolita by vladimir nabokov: i used to hear about this book
ayersellie

ayersellie

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A person in a suit and leopard print shirt with hands on their head. A book cover for "SLEWFOOT a tale of bewitchery" is shown, with a text review praising its layered and devastating story.
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Wonderfully out of control books
I highly recommend these wonderfully unhinged books! So good. #booktok #mustread #tbr #tbrlist #bookrecs
Great Thriller Books

Great Thriller Books

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A stack of books, including titles like 'The Happy Ever After Playlist' and 'Happy Place,' rests on a bed of pink and white tulips. The image has a text overlay that reads 'Self Help Reading'.
The book '101 ESSAYS that will CHANGE the way YOU THINK' by Brianna Wiest is displayed open on a light-colored, rumpled sheet.
A hand holds the book 'WHEN YOU'RE READY THIS IS HOW YOU HEAL' by Brianna Wiest against a plain light background.
Self Help Books
101 Essays to Change the Way You Think Summary: Brianna Wiest explores the interplay between your thoughts, your perceptions, and the way you experience life. She argues that unwanted life circumstances aren't to blame for your bad feelings—only your thoughts about these circumstances are.
Alexis Marie

Alexis Marie

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Two shelves display numerous hardcover books with decorative spines and intricate sprayed edges, illustrating the article's topic about the prevalence of sprayed edge books. The image includes text stating, 'Unpopular opinion: sprayed edge books Are getting out of control.'
A person holds a white hardcover book titled "BLOOD OF HERCULES" with gold and black vine patterns on the cover and matching sprayed edges, featuring a "30% OFF" sticker.
A hand holds a purple hardcover book titled "THE NEVER LIST" with gold text and a wax seal design, showcasing its decorative sprayed edges with a gold floral pattern.
sprayed edge books Are getting out of control
Hear me out, I love sprayed edges on books. I do believe that it adds a art factor to the way books are looking in this day and age. But I also believe that not every book or hardcover book should have sprayed edges. I feel like sprayed edges should be limited to certain very popular books and have
Sh life

Sh life

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A woman with long blonde hair sits in a car, looking at the camera. Text overlay reads "How To Be LESS DRAMATIC AND MORE IN CONTROL," serving as the article's title.
An aerial view from an airplane window shows a landscape below. A text box contains the first tip on handling unexpected situations by considering the worst-case scenario.
An aerial view from an airplane window shows a cloudy, mountainous landscape. A text box contains the second tip about allowing dedicated time for grieving without prolonged self-torture.
How To Be Less Dramatic and More in Control
1. When something doesn’t go as planned and you want to start spiraling, splash your face with some water and ask yourself - what is the worst case scenario in this? And in the worst case scenario, can you handle it? And I do not mean do you WANT to do it. I mean is it possible to fix this issue ev
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Taylorsometimes

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A pink book titled 'Calm the F*ck Down' by Sarah Knight, a national bestseller and 'No F*cks Given Guide' on how to control what you can and accept what you can't.
A white book titled 'You Do You' by Sarah Knight, an author of 'The Life-Changing Magic of Not Giving a F*ck'. It's a 'No F*cks Given Guide' on being yourself.
An orange book titled '13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do' by Amy Morin, an international bestseller about taking back power and training your brain for happiness.
Books every woman NEEDS to read 📚ðŸĨ°ðŸ’š
These books have help and mold me into the woman I am today. Very good sit down reads when your in the process of your healing stages. Just want to tune things out or just need a moment to yourself check these out :
Alexis Robinson

Alexis Robinson

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A hand holds the book 'The Deeper the Water the Uglier the Fish' by Katya Apekina, with other books stacked behind it. The image is labeled 'niche books' and includes the Lemon8 username.
The book 'The Deeper the Water the Uglier the Fish' by Katya Apekina is highlighted, described as 353 pages of disturbing literary horror, with a Goodreads summary and a trigger warning.
The book 'The Country Will Bring Us No Peace' by Matthieu Simard is displayed, described as a 128-page horror thriller translated from French, accompanied by a Goodreads summary.
six books i guarantee you don’t have on your tbr
And if you do have these on your TBR alreadyâ€Ķlet’s be book bffs because you have immaculate taste ðŸĨģ I love weird books!! Niche books!! Short books that pack a punch!! Literary horror books that leave you more unsettled and icked-out than traditional horror!! And ALL of these fit in one or multip
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molly

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🚀Books to Change Your Life and Mindset
Feeling stuck? Ready to level up in every area of your life? These books have got you covered! Here’s a sneak peek: âœĻ “There’s Got to Be Something More” – For when you crave purpose but don’t know where to start. 💎 “Better Small Talk” – Stop dreading conversations and start connecting like a
Kelia

Kelia

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Romance books relasing in May ðŸĐ·
Get ready to welcome more romance in a month! 😍 #romanceâœĻ #romancewithatwist #romancebooks #books #bookrecommendations
Yami ðŸ“šðŸŠą

Yami ðŸ“šðŸŠą

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5 levels of attachment *self-help books*
In “The Five Levels of Attachment," Don Miguel Ruiz delineates the progression from authentic self-awareness to rigid fanaticism, illustrating how individuals become attached to their beliefs and identities By recognizing these levels, readers gain insight into their own attachments and are
BATE by Rana

BATE by Rana

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12 Money Habits That Separate Broke People From Wealthy People
1. Stop Guessing — Make a Budget If you don’t tell your money where to go, it disappears. A budget isn’t restrictive—it’s control. Track your income, bills, savings, and spending so your money starts working for you instead of against you. âļŧ 2. Save Before You Spend Most people save wh
Gabe

Gabe

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5 BOOKS TO AVOID UNNECESSARY TAX 👀
Let's get real for a sec – taxes are the WORST, right?! ðŸ˜Đ Like, who actually *enjoys* filling out those endless forms and trying to decipher confusing tax jargon? 🙋‍♀ïļ Not me, that's for sure. I used to dread tax season so much. But then I had a lightbulb moment ðŸ’Ą – what if I actually *l
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Meredith Jao

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