VBAC or repeat CS?

Hey moms, especially C-section moms!! I’m pregnant with my second, about 19 weeks now. I’ve been tossing around how I want to deliver, assuming things go according to plan. I want to try a VBAC, but I know many factors come into play here, and I just want some input. Personal experiences, tips, everything you have, throw it at me!!

Here’s how my first went:

I was electively induced a few days before my due date out of fear of my baby being too big, no health concerns. Everything looked great on both my end and baby’s end. My body wasn’t ready when I was induced - no dilation, 0% effaced, my cervix was a locked door as far as that goes (I wasn’t educated on induction beforehand, which my OB really fell short on). After 30 something hours with two failed epidurals, I never got past 6cm dilated and only slightly effaced, even with two doses of cytotek, Pitocin, a foley bulb, and my water breaking. I elected to have a c-section because I was so exhausted and felt like I couldn’t go anymore.

My identical sister (I’m a triplet) had a similar birth story except she was put on Pitocin when she was already about 3cm dilated, but she ended up with a c-section too due to failure to progress (which is what mine was also classified as). This makes me wonder if our body anatomy just doesn’t accommodate natural birth.

Have you attempted a VBAC? Succeeded, failed? Do you want to? What’s your reasoning? I mainly want a VBAC because the recovery time is supposedly so much better than c-section recovery - I felt so helpless after my c-section with my first.

Thanks in advance for your input 💕💕

#csection #momsoflemon8 #letschat #vbac #birth

2025/6/4 Edited to

... Read moreUnderstanding the choice between a VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Cesarean) and a repeat C-section is crucial for moms. Many factors influence this decision, including medical history, the reason for the first C-section, and how the labor process unfolds. VBAC is often preferred due to the quicker recovery and the desire for a natural birth experience. Most importantly, it’s advisable to consult with a healthcare professional to discuss personal risks and benefits. Each woman’s body is different, and many who attempt a VBAC succeed, while others may need to opt for a repeat C-section based on their circumstances and ongoing health evaluations. Engaging with communities of moms who share their experiences can offer valuable insights. Exploring trending discussions or forums on VBAC can also provide support and answer many questions related to this significant choice. Ultimately, the decision should be made with a complete understanding of the labor process and what it entails for both mother and baby, ensuring you are educated and empowered in your delivery choices.

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I would try a vbac the pain is so much less in my opinion. My c section had me crying for months and missing out on my baby. I’ve had 5 successful vbacs ❤️

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Consult a doctor or labor and delivery nurse or midwife. There are too many factors to just get opinions on social media. Safety for you and baby comes first.🥰

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