Lil update
Dealing with Chaos that would have Absolutely SENT you into a spiral before working on healing and being able to talk yourself through the trigger instead of going into FULL BLOWN fight or flight is absolutely refreshing. Thank you Lord and therapy. 🫶
Navigating through trauma can be an overwhelming experience, especially when past chaos triggers intense emotional reactions. In my journey, I’ve learned that while trauma isn’t something we choose or cause, taking responsibility for our healing profoundly changes how we respond to these triggers. One breakthrough moment for me was when I could pause during moments that previously sent me into a full-blown fight or flight reaction. Instead of instinctively spiraling, I started talking myself through these triggers — reminding myself that I am safe and that these feelings, although distressing, are temporary. This practice didn’t happen overnight but developed with continuous therapy and faith, which I’ve found to be pillars in my healing process. Therapy provided me with practical tools to recognize when I’m being triggered and offered strategies to calm my mind. Techniques like grounding exercises, deep breathing, and cognitive-behavioral approaches helped build resilience and redirect my automatic responses into healthier ones. It’s important to emphasize that healing is not linear; setbacks may occur, but each step forward offers growth and relief. Sharing my story and recognizing the responsibility I hold for my own healing has empowered me and hopefully can encourage others facing similar challenges to seek help and remain patient with themselves. Remember, trauma shapes parts of our experience, but it doesn’t define our entire future. With the right support and personal commitment, it is possible to transform chaos into calm and regain control over your emotional wellbeing.
frr. you have to deal with getting to a better state, and many times its so unbearable, some off themselves or it genuinely just offs you.