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The wedding we two created ourselves. 🫶🏻💍

It's a year of preparation for us to get married.

We had the same intention that we wanted a small wedding.

The concept of our work is the word "home."

A home that will be the beginning of family building.

A home that is truly a place of love, warmth.

We want to organize an event with only family and close friends.

Want to save as many wedding statements as possible

So we chose to act on each other every step of the way.

I said, "Very tired!!!"A lot of stress happens.

But fatigue, accumulated stress don't betray us.

It resulted in a beautiful work for us!!!

It resulted in us being very proud of our work!!!

It resulted in us loving and being in every part of our work!!!!

Yes, this is our home.

To have a beautiful day, always through problems and obstacles.

It makes us feel like this is the wedding we've dreamed of all our lives.

It's already happened, and it's so beautiful that it's beyond our dreams. 🥹🥰

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Fell in love with the millionth round of self-work that exists. 🤍

Simple, warm, full of beautiful love.

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# Wedding idea # Dream wedding # Wedding yourself # Wedding arranged at home # Wedding review

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... Read moreถ้าใครกำลังคิดจะ “จัดงานแต่งงานที่บ้านด้วยตัวเอง” แบบเรา ขอมาสรุปสิ่งที่ได้เรียนรู้ (ทั้งเหนื่อย ทั้งคุ้ม) เผื่อช่วยให้วางแผนง่ายขึ้นและเซฟงบได้จริงค่ะ 1) เริ่มจากคอนเซปต์ให้ชัดก่อน: ของเราใช้คำว่า “บ้าน” เป็นแกนหลัก พอมีธีมเดียว ทุกอย่างตัดสินใจง่ายขึ้นมาก เช่น โทนสีขาว-ไม้-เขียวธรรมชาติ เลือกดอกไม้ให้ดูอบอุ่น ใช้โต๊ะยาวกลางแจ้งให้ฟีลกินข้าวที่บ้านกับคนสนิท แล้วค่อยต่อยอดเป็นรายละเอียดเล็กๆ อย่างป้ายชื่อโต๊ะเจ้าบ่าวเจ้าสาว มุมของชำร่วย หรือมุมต้อนรับแขกให้ไปในทางเดียวกัน 2) แบ่งโซนงานให้แขก “เดินแล้วไม่งง”: งานที่บ้านพื้นที่มักไม่ได้กว้างแบบโรงแรม เราแบ่งเป็น 4 โซนหลัก - โซนพิธีในร่ม: จัดเก้าอี้ไม้เรียงให้พอดีทางเดิน เติมดอกไม้/ผ้าบางๆ ให้ดูละมุน - โซนรับแขกและอาหารกลางวัน: ทำให้เป็นจุดแรกที่ทุกคนเจอ มีคนช่วยดูแลคิว/ต้อนรับจะรอดมาก - โซนโต๊ะอาหารเย็นกลางแจ้งสำหรับเพื่อนๆ: โต๊ะยาว + ไฟประดับ/โคมไฟใต้ต้นไม้ บรรยากาศดีแบบไม่ต้องแต่งเยอะ - โซนถ่ายรูป: เราทำมุมถ่ายรูปกลางแจ้ง และอีกมุมเป็น “ดวงจันทร์จำลอง” เป็นจุดเด่นที่ทุกคนอยากถ่าย 3) สิ่งที่ช่วยเซฟงบแบบเห็นผล: - ทำพร็อพเองเท่าที่ไหว (ป้ายชื่อ, มุมของชำร่วย, ของตกแต่งโต๊ะ) แล้วเอางบไปลงกับสิ่งที่แขกสัมผัสจริง เช่น อาหาร/เครื่องดื่ม/ไฟแสงตอนกลางคืน - ใช้ของจากบ้านให้เป็น: แจกัน ขวดแก้ว เก้าอี้ไม้ ผ้าปูโต๊ะโทนเดียวกัน ช่วยลดค่าเช่าของได้เยอะ - เลือกดอกไม้ตามฤดูกาลและสีเดียวคุมโทน จะได้ดูแพงขึ้นแบบไม่ต้องใช้ดอกเยอะ 4) เช็กลิสต์ที่อยากให้มี “ก่อนวันงาน”: - ซ้อมไทม์ไลน์ 1 รอบ (พิธี-ถ่ายรูป-กินข้าว-ช่วงเพื่อนๆ) เพราะทำเองจะพลาดง่าย - แผนไฟตอนเย็น: ไฟประดับ/ปลั๊กพ่วง/จุดต่อไฟ ต้องลองเปิดจริงก่อน - แผนฝน: มีเต็นท์หรือพื้นที่ในร่มสำรองไว้ จะสบายใจมาก - คนช่วยหน้างาน: ต่อให้ทำเอง ขอมีเพื่อน/ญาติ 2-3 คนเป็นทีมประสานงาน (รับของ, เช็กดอกไม้, คุมเวลา) เจ้าบ่าวเจ้าสาวจะได้ “อยู่กับโมเมนต์” จริงๆ 5) ดีเทลเล็กๆ ที่ทำให้ภาพออกมาสวย: โต๊ะยาวกลางแจ้ง, มุมใต้ต้นไม้ที่มีผ้า+โคมไฟ, จุดถ่ายรูปคู่, ช่วงสนุกกับเพื่อนๆ อย่างเดินลอดซุ้มพลุไฟเย็น/โยนดอกไม้ พอมีแสงและฉากหลังดี ภาพจะดูอบอุ่นและมีเรื่องเล่าในตัวเอง สุดท้าย งานแต่งที่เราทำเองอาจเหนื่อยและเครียดกว่าที่คิด แต่ถ้าเราเลือก “ความเรียบง่ายที่มีความหมาย” และจัดให้เหมาะกับบ้านของเรา มันจะออกมาสวยแบบตรงใจจริงๆ และรู้สึกว่าได้เริ่มต้นคำว่า “บ้าน” อย่างที่ตั้งใจค่ะ

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