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what is a deal breaker in a relationship for you?💔

what is something that you could never move on from in a relationship??

something that would be a complete deal breaker for you?

Have you ever experienced it??

What happened??

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2024/3/12 Edited to

In relationships, deal breakers are often the issues that make it impossible for partners to continue together. Common deal breakers include infidelity, lack of communication, and differing values. It is essential to identify your boundaries during the early stages of a relationship to prevent heartbreak later on. Moreover, open communication about expectations can help couples navigate potential issues before they become significant problems. Have you ever faced a situation where a partner's behavior made you reconsider the relationship? Sharing your experiences can help others understand the impact of various deal breakers. Reflecting on past relationships can also provide clarity about what truly matters to you in a partner. The insights gained from such reflections can foster healthier relationships in the future by ensuring that both partners are on the same page. In addition, consider engaging with communities focused on relationships and advice, such as forums or social media discussions, to gather diverse opinions and stories. This collective wisdom can enhance your understanding of what constitutes a deal breaker for others and might resonate with your own experiences. Remember, clarity about your deal breakers can pave the way for healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

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if they can't answer simple questions about their ex. call that stupid but if you can't tell me who your ex is without panicking, then you can see yourself out the door.

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Snoring 👃🏾. Inconsistent texting 🤳🏾. Lack of communication 🗣️. Body odor/hygiene 😷. Crazy looking feet 👣 . Lack of cleanliness. Non-chalant. Inconsiderate.

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