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Morning, friends!

I actually saw the inside of 5am this morning. When my little squirrel brain gets an idea, it takes everything out of me and I've been up since before dawn working - practicing is a better word - on a new project I hope to start kicking off in January. Heyo!

A big day today. I'm headed off to the Kingston Food Bank Partners in Mission for the final tallies and totals of your generosity through the Weekend of Care-ing.

It's very, very humbling to watch Kingstonians roll up and leave a gift for another family in need.

I am also truly humbled by the folks who took the time out to tell me that they read my daily mug shots, and follow this page. No matter the pirate language, the inappropriate ( 😉 ) memes, the sheer velocity of posts that go out in a single day. I appreciate every single one of you for hanging out with me and making me feel like every day I microblog worth it.

Thank you.

Douglas Adams wrote: To give real service you must add something which cannot be bought or measured with money: and that is sincerity and integrity.

What resonates with people is authenticity. Being genuine. I do not collect for the food bank because it looks good on my moral scorecard, or elevates my social pages, or levels me up on some playing field.

In fact - it doesn't for the dozens of people who donated, either. All of us - all of YOU - who took the time out of their lives to say: here is something. Whether it have been a small gift, a large gift, a food item, a couple bucks in the bucket, or even sharing the cause - you did it because you genuinely believe in something bigger than yourself - giving back.

And THAT. That is service you can't buy with money.

- c xx ✨️

2025/12/16 Edited to

... Read moreStarting the day before dawn with a burst of inspiration, the author reflects on the significance of authentic service rooted in sincerity and integrity. Volunteering at the Kingston Food Bank Partners in Mission during the Weekend of Care-ing offers a firsthand glimpse into the profound impact small, heartfelt contributions have on families in need. The phrase "morning BITCHES," recognized from the image text, injects a playful, candid tone that contrasts yet complements the sincere message of generosity—demonstrating how personal flair can create relatable content that resonates with readers. Community involvement like this transcends simply donating goods or money; it embodies the spirit of giving back because one genuinely believes in uplifting others. The author’s appreciation extends to everyone who participates, from leaving small food items to sharing the cause, emphasizing that every form of generosity, no matter the size, holds valuable significance. Douglas Adams’ words cited here underscore that true service cannot be quantified by money alone but is measured by the authenticity and integrity behind the act. This perspective encourages us all to embrace giving as a meaningful, personal commitment rather than a performative gesture. Morning routines infused with passion, intentional acts of kindness, and genuine connections form the heart of community strength. These daily "mug shots" of life share the raw, unfiltered moments that inspire others to join in making a difference. By capturing and sharing such experiences, the content encourages readers to reflect on their own opportunities to serve with sincerity and real impact. Ultimately, this narrative celebrates the quiet power of giving with no expectations—just pure, heartfelt care. It invites readers to recognize that serving others enriches not only the receiver but deeply fulfills the giver, forging bonds within the community fueled by trust and genuine concern.

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