I got backlash for feeding this to my 2 year old daughter 🙁

The other night, my husband & kids were craving some crab. I just want to point out, they love real and imitation crab, and since we’re on a budget, I got some imitation crab. Everything came out delicious and I post daily food content of the dinners I make. I am in a facebook group where people share their dinners as well, and I post there pretty regularly. After I posted this specific dinner, 90% of the commenters absolutely made me feel like cr*p about this plate. A lot of them stated I’m feeding my family cheap seafood, & why not actually serve them wild caught fish. First of all, I never mentioned if this was fresh or frozen seafood, so how possibly are they getting that information from? 😭 and most of the people bashed me for not having a veggie on the plate here. I do agree I did need to cook veggies this night but I didn’t because it was a late rushed dinner since we had just came back from an indoor playground that we were at for 2 hours. Everyone was tired and hungry, and since everyone had been craving seafood, I didn’t put much thinking into the veggie part :( that is my fault, yes, but everyone got fed and full. The other part was the rice, they accused me of blue dying my rice with artificial food coloring. Let me just state here, the rice was colored with blue spirulina which is actually good for our bodies. I just wanted to add a little “sea” theme to our dinner since it was all seafood. But now, dang, I don’t know, people just want to dim your light sometimes by saying the harshest things ever. If you ever want to suggest some advice to someone about their cooking, just give them some ideas but don’t bash them cause you never know the whole story.

#toddlerfood #toddlermenu #backlash #sendadvice

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... Read moreFeeding toddlers can sometimes become a subject of unsolicited opinions, especially when sharing food choices on social media. From my experience, it’s important to remember that every family’s situation is different, and sometimes practical considerations like budget and time constraints take priority over perfect meals. In this instance, choosing imitation crab was a conscious decision to satisfy cravings affordably. While some might argue for wild-caught seafood for its nutritional benefits, imitation crab is often fortified and can be a practical part of a varied diet. Additionally, using blue spirulina powder to color rice isn't just a creative touch—it’s a superfood packed with antioxidants, vitamins, and minerals, which can be a gentle way to introduce kids to nutrient-dense foods. I can relate to the pressures of rushing through dinner after a busy day, especially when returning from an active outing like an indoor playground visit. Ideally, including vegetables is important, but skipping them occasionally when time or energy runs low is understandable. Balanced nutrition over time, rather than perfection every day, supports healthy growth. For parents facing similar backlash: try to focus on what works for your family and avoid overthinking social media comments. Engage with supportive groups, share tips, and remember that your effort to nourish your child is valuable. Constructive advice is helpful, but harsh judgments often don’t consider all the behind-the-scenes realities. Ultimately, feeding toddlers is about balance, creativity, and love, not perfection. Encourage variety and use affordable, nutritious ingredients as you can, and allow yourself grace when days are hectic. Your child’s health and happiness matter most.

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Mom of 7 and Grammy of 9 here. I think it looks great and I bet the kids had a blast eating it. Ignore those who blast you!

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Do you n keep going they probably just need more Jesus and they didn’t know how to cook it and help us because idk what that even taste like or imitation seafood but I would eat it all right now and don’t dull your light for another’s breeze of cold keep going n be who God made u to be and the talents n love n warm hearted person u seem to be cs u went out ur way to make it blue rice n more magical n u have everything seasoned looks soo good also life happens and not everyday u have “perfect coursed meal” snd thats okay!! You are providing for ur family and that is what matters also no one knows how tired u were after all day out or anything yet u still showed up n made dinner!! Jesus loves you John 3:16

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