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"Men start taking care of themselves = signs, is there anyone else?"

We were talking to a guy, going around together, talking about almost everything every day, and at first he barely took care of himself, not dressed or caring about himself.

But in the latter, we started to get apart, and we noticed that their attitude had changed.

Saw him chatting with another woman. When asked, he said he was a friend.

Hurry, Pim. Hurry and chat sometimes to talk on the phone outside or away from us so we can't hear.

The most confusing thing is that he came back to take care of himself very hard.

We're not sure... Is he really taking care of himself because he wants to improve himself or because someone else?

Have your friends ever experienced this situation? "

# Love experience # Love, relationships # Ask and answer love # Love story

2025/11/26 Edited to

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