ATTENTION CREEPY MEN.

i have a lot of people reach out to me on this app and it’s all been innocent and relatively friendly and enjoyable! i have people reach out about my dog, my choice in music, sending me fun stuff… until this.

LADIES BLOCK THIS ACCOUNT!!!

-he went through my account and found a picture and confronted me about where i live, letting me know he lives there too.

-if going through my account he would’ve found my posts about MY BOYFRIEND.

-he called me “love” and sent me hand heart.

this really made me uncomfortable and obviously i could’ve just not engaged but i have plenty of mutuals on lemon8, but for future reference only women.

sorry guys! this guy ruined it for you all. ladies block this guy! he has content, i just blocked him.

2024/2/7 Edited to

... Read moreHey everyone! After reading this post about an uncomfortable DM experience, I totally felt a wave of 'ugh, not again.' It really highlights something we all need to be vigilant about on social platforms like Lemon8: how to spot those classic 'creepy guy' red flags and keep our online spaces safe. It’s not always about overt harassment; sometimes it’s those subtle boundary-pushing behaviors that make your skin crawl. What really stands out is how easily personal details can be pieced together. When someone goes through your profile, finds a photo (like mentioning 'Milo's' downtown from a picture, as seen in the OCR!), and then uses that to pinpoint your location, it instantly crosses a line. It’s a huge invasion of privacy and definitely makes you feel vulnerable. And then, when they ignore clear signs – like seeing posts about your boyfriend – and start using overly familiar terms like 'love,' it’s a massive red flag. Your gut feeling is almost always right when an interaction feels off. My biggest takeaway? Don't hesitate to block. Seriously, don't feel guilty. Your peace of mind and personal safety are paramount. On Lemon8, we share so much of our lives and creativity, and it’s meant to be a positive community. If someone makes you feel uncomfortable, blocking them is your right and a powerful tool. You don't owe them an explanation or another minute of your energy. It’s about setting clear boundaries and protecting your digital space. Beyond blocking, it's a good reminder to be mindful of what we share publicly. While it's fun to post about our daily lives, hobbies, and even our adorable pets like Milo, a quick check of your privacy settings or being a little vague about exact locations in your photos can add an extra layer of protection. It’s not about living in fear, but about being smart and proactive. We want to enjoy Lemon8 freely, and that includes feeling secure in our interactions. Let's keep this conversation going and support each other! Sharing these types of experiences, even if they're unsettling, helps us all learn and stay vigilant. If you’ve had similar uncomfortable DMs or encountered 'creepy guy' situations, know you're not alone. We can collectively make Lemon8 a safer and more welcoming place for everyone. Always trust your instincts, and remember, a simple block can make a huge difference in reclaiming your comfort online. Stay safe and keep sharing those amazing posts, ladies!

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I just got a message by a creepy man like WTH I wouldn’t care if it was a women because I feel more comfortable with talking to a older women then a man since the older men who texted me asked me some creep stuff so i blocked him

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