2 years into this career… and I still don’t have everything figured out 🥹

When I first started, I somehow thought that by Year 2, I’d feel super confident and know exactly what I was doing.

Turns out… not really 😂

There were good days, messy days, days I felt like I was growing, and days I wondered if I was even getting anywhere.

But looking back, I realised growth didn’t always look like a big achievement. Sometimes it was simply showing up again the next morning, having one more conversation, learning from another experience, and slowly finding my own way of doing things.

I’m definitely not where I want to be yet, but I’m also very different from the girl who started 2 years ago. 🤍

Going into Year 3 with more intention, more consistency, and hopefully a little less pressure to have everything figured out.

Here’s to Year 3 🥂

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... Read moreStarting and building a career is often more complex than we expect, especially during those first crucial years. From my own experience and resonating deeply with the experience shared here, it's clear that growth isn't always marked by big wins but often by the small, steady steps we take each day. Some days felt unproductive or even frustrating, with back-to-back meetings, early mornings, and long commutes that tested my motivation. Yet, it was in those routine moments of showing up and engaging—even when uncertain—that real progress bloomed. What helped me most was shifting my mindset from trying to replicate how others succeed to carving out my unique approach aligned with my values and strengths. This meant accepting that it’s okay not to have everything figured out by Year 2 or even Year 3. Instead, staying consistent, reflecting on experiences, and learning incrementally helped me build confidence gradually. Another key takeaway is that career growth includes emotional resilience. Facing days that felt stagnant or messy reminded me that persistence matters more than perfection. Celebrating small milestones, like meaningful conversations or acquiring new insights, reinforced my commitment to the journey. As you move forward in your career—whether it’s Year 2 or beyond—embrace the uncertainty and the lessons embedded in each day. Remember, transformation takes time, and your path will be uniquely yours. Intentionality, patience, and self-compassion become powerful tools to navigate the ups and downs while steadily advancing toward your professional goals.

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