✨ 9 Days Until Launch ✨

Everyone thinks writers have quiet candlelit offices, long stretches of free time, and endless focus. The reality? My book was written in pure chaos.

By day, I’m a full-time instructional designer. By night, I’m weaving eerie death scenes. In between, I’m a mom of three girls (a high school senior, a middle schooler, and a glitter-powered first grader) with a husband who’s active-duty military, which often means I’m juggling life solo while he’s away.

Add in a part-time job, a house that refuses to clean itself, dinners my kids won’t eat, Mount Laundry that mocks me daily, and the small matter of finishing my doctorate… and you can picture the scene: me typing a creepy chapter while my kids are in the background fighting over chicken nuggets.

✨ I had to stop waiting for “perfect writing conditions.” They don’t exist. The story gets written in the margins of your life.

👀 9 days until launch. Chaos included.

#WritersJourney #CozyChaosVibes #ReadersOfLemon8 #BookLaunchCountdown #AuthorLife

2025/8/26 Edited to

... Read moreSo many of you have asked how I actually manage to carve out time to write a book with a full-time job, a bustling family, and countless other responsibilities. It's certainly not about finding mythical 'perfect conditions'—those simply don't exist in my world! Instead, it's about embracing the chaos and finding pockets of productivity. Here are some of my personal strategies that helped me bring 'The Missing Reflection' to life: 1. Master the Art of the Mobile Office: My car has become my most reliable creative sanctuary. Seriously! Whether it's parked outside a sports practice, a school pickup, or during a quick lunch break, those moments are gold. I keep a fully charged laptop, a reliable hotspot, and noise-canceling headphones ready. It’s amazing what you can accomplish in 20-30 minutes when you're focused and free from household distractions. Sometimes, a quiet corner of a local library or coffee shop also works wonders, but the car is truly my go-to 'office on wheels.' 2. Embrace Micro-Writing Sessions: Forget needing three uninterrupted hours. For me, writing happens in short, intense bursts. I learned to maximize 15-minute windows. Before I even open my laptop, I know exactly what scene I'm tackling, what dialogue I need to write, or what plot point I'm developing. This focused approach makes those small pockets of time incredibly productive. It’s like a quick mental sprint, getting words on the page before the next demand of life swoops in. 3. Cultivate a Flexible Routine, Not a Rigid Schedule: The idea of a strict daily writing schedule felt impossible with my life. Instead, I developed a *flexible routine*. This means being adaptable. Some days, I write early in the morning before anyone wakes up. Other days, it’s late at night after everyone is asleep. There are even days where I sneak in a few paragraphs during my lunch break. The key is consistency, even if the timing shifts daily. It’s about showing up for your story whenever and wherever you can. 4. Prioritize and Delegate: I had to get comfortable with letting some things slide or asking for help. My house isn’t always immaculate, and sometimes dinner is simpler than I'd like. It’s about deciding what truly needs my immediate attention and what can wait, or what family members can pitch in with. Delegating chores or asking my partner to take the kids for an hour allowed me to protect those precious writing moments. 5. Lower Your Standards for the First Draft: This was a huge mental shift. I used to get bogged down trying to make every sentence perfect. Now, I just get the words out. The first draft is purely about telling the story to myself. The editing and refining come much later. This mindset helps me push through quickly, even when I'm tired, because I know it doesn't have to be perfect right away. It's definitely a juggling act, but seeing my book, 'The Missing Reflection,' come to life makes every chaotic moment worth it. If you're dreaming of writing but feel overwhelmed by life, remember: your story deserves to be told, even if it's written in the margins of your beautiful, messy life!

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