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The problem of big voice people

He was a big voice who spoke quietly, without being high and low. At first he didn't think that there would be a problem, but when he grew up, he felt that we didn't dare to speak in front of the class, afraid to talk to the mic even though we wanted to.

Fear of speaking, hearing yourself.

Making clips when having to come back to listen, even more unsure

* * * What should I do to make the future more confident?

# Sound # Trending # Consult # lemon 8 diary

2025/11/21 Edited to

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