Automatically translated.View original post

The problem of big voice people

He was a big voice who spoke quietly, without being high and low. At first he didn't think that there would be a problem, but when he grew up, he felt that we didn't dare to speak in front of the class, afraid to talk to the mic even though we wanted to.

Fear of speaking, hearing yourself.

Making clips when having to come back to listen, even more unsure

* * * What should I do to make the future more confident?

# Sound # Trending # Consult # lemon 8 diary

2025/11/21 Edited to

... Read moreการมีเสียงใหญ่แต่ไม่มั่นใจในเสียงตัวเองเป็นปัญหาที่หลายคนเผชิญ โดยเฉพาะเมื่อต้องพูดในที่สาธารณะหรือทำคลิปวิดีโอ เราสามารถลองฝึกฟังเสียงตัวเองบ่อย ๆ ในบรรยากาศที่เป็นกันเอง เช่น กับเพื่อนหรือครอบครัว เพื่อปรับความรู้สึกให้คุ้นเคยและลดความกลัวที่จะได้ยินเสียงตัวเอง นอกจากนี้ การพูดช้า ๆ เน้นคำที่ต้องการสื่อสาร และฝึกควบคุมลมหายใจช่วยให้เสียงฟังดูมั่นใจมากขึ้น การบันทึกเสียงแล้วฟังซ้ำ ๆ สามารถช่วยให้เราเข้าใจเสียงตัวเองดีขึ้นและหาวิธีปรับปรุงได้ตามต้องการ หากโชคดีมีโอกาสลองเข้าร่วมคลาสเรียนเสียงหรือนักพูดมืออาชีพเพื่อรับคำแนะนำเฉพาะตัว ทั้งนี้ ความกลัวต่อเสียงตัวเองเป็นเรื่องปกติ แต่ถ้าเรากล้าฝึกและเปิดใจยอมรับเสียงของตัวเองบ่อย ๆ ความมั่นใจก็จะค่อย ๆ เพิ่มขึ้นในอนาคต สำหรับคนที่โดนล้อเรื่องเสียงใหญ่ แนะนำให้ย้ำเตือนตัวเองว่าความแตกต่างนั้นคือจุดเด่น และเรียนรู้ที่จะรับมือกับความเห็นแง่ลบด้วยความมั่นใจและความเข้าใจว่าเสียงแต่ละคนมีความสวยงามในแบบของตัวเอง

Related posts

Journal: Amber episode 1 of 3
Chapter 1 — The Anniversary Gift The train smelled like summer. Sweat. Basketball. And bad decisions. I sat by the window with my basketball wedged between my knees and watched Summit disappear behind me. Back then I was fifteen years old. A sophomore in high school. My pare
Kevin W. Simpson

Kevin W. Simpson

1 like

8 signs He’s Not the Problem Your Self Esteem is 🫤
sis, you don’t have to chase to be chosen. You don’t have to prove you’re “good enough” to stay. You don’t need another apology ,you need your power back. 📖 Becoming Her Before He Comes is the book I wrote for the woman who’s tired of shrinking in love just to feel secure. It’s time to rebuild
Soft Cut Society

Soft Cut Society

79 likes

Am I the problem?
Having no friends in itself is bad but there are things you don’t realize until you experience it.I am on my second year of college and left my friend group last November and I haven’t made any new ones since despite trying. So I decided to list on lemon8 why it sucks 1.i can’t get an apartment
Dashia

Dashia

1068 likes

A woman takes a mirror selfie in a restroom. Purple banners overlay the image, reading "6 Non-Techy Tech Jobs" and "for Total Beginners 🚀". The Lemon8 logo and username @dominicaamauri are visible.
A laptop screen shows code, partially obscured by a semi-transparent overlay. The overlay text describes "Content Creator 📝": "Write blogs, social posts, and more. No coding, just creativity!".
A laptop screen shows code, partially obscured by a semi-transparent overlay. The overlay text describes "UX Researcher 🔍": "Understand how people use tech. Perfect for curious minds".
No Tech Experience? No Problem! 💻✨
Thinking about joining the tech world but feeling lost on how? There's a secret no one tells you: you don't need to be a coding wizard to break into tech! 🧙‍♀️✨ Truth bomb: Tech companies are DYING for people with fresh perspectives and killer soft skills. 💣💥 That's right, your abil
Dominica Amauri

Dominica Amauri

158 likes

One solution to the problem of high car fuel-con
Chequanxiaoqiao

Chequanxiaoqiao

314 likes

Avoid people who:1. People who mess with your head
Okay! I uploaded images of small, cozy outdoor seating areas in your backyard. I am aware that they may be computer-generated images. I still think they're beautiful and would love to have one built. Well I will never put someone on blast. This keyboard warrior just kept making a big deal so i
Nadia lang

Nadia lang

45 likes

A modern interior features a light-colored wall panel with the quote "You are not a leader until you have produced another leader." A light brown sectional sofa and a dark abstract sculpture are in the foreground, reflecting on the polished floor.
Most people believe leadership is proven
Most people believe leadership is proven by how many people follow you. For a long time, I believed that too. I thought leadership meant being the person everyone relied on. The one people came to for answers. The one who solved problems. The one who kept everything moving. It felt
Aman Sahota

Aman Sahota

95 likes

Budgeting Isn’t the Problem
Budgeting doesn’t fix anything if your habits stay the same. Most people don’t need a better plan — they need better patterns. #budgeting #habits #moneysavingtips #moneymindset #patterns
DoDigitalwithDay

DoDigitalwithDay

15 likes

Have you been ignoring this problem too?
#haircarejourney #hairlossrecovery #stronghairgoals #healthyroots #naturalhaircare #scalplove
skinporelessnyc03

skinporelessnyc03

403 likes

🗣️Money is not the problem. Mindset is.💯
Some of us were taught to trust God but feel guilty about wanting more. Some of us were taught poverty was humility and struggle was holiness. That teaching was incomplete. This page exists to bring clarity, not condemnation. Here, we talk about money through scripture. We correct confusio
IAmQuitana

IAmQuitana

1346 likes

A young woman in a brown top and jeans looks back at the camera, with buildings and palm trees in the background. Overlay text reads: "4 WAYS I WOULD BE SPENDING MY TIME IF I DIDN'T HAVE AN INTERNSHIP THIS SUMMER."
An indoor view of a modern space with wooden tables and chairs, looking out through large windows at a city landscape. Overlay text suggests taking online community college courses.
A young woman takes a mirror selfie in a tiled bathroom, wearing a black dress and holding a phone. Overlay text mentions working on a passion project.
No internship? No problem. 🤝
If I could go back in time to college, here’s how I’d spend my summer if I didn’t have an internship! You can also do these things with an internship as well (in fact, I highly recommend it)! 👇 1. Community college courses — knocking out lower division course requirements can help you graduate
hannah 💟

hannah 💟

33 likes

5 Signs You’re a People-Pleaser & How to Stop It
Let's be real-being kind is great, but when you're constantly bending over backward for others at your own expense, it's time to hit pause. Drop a 🙌 if you're done saying 'yes' to everyone but yourself! #setboundaries #wellnesstips #putyourselffirst #healthyboun
Alpha Queens Club

Alpha Queens Club

148 likes

PCOS was never “just an ovary problem.”
PCOS was never “just an ovary problem.” Today, experts announced a new proposed name for PCOS: PMOS — Polyendocrine Metabolic Ovarian Syndrome. And honestly? Women with PCOS have been saying this for YEARS. Because it doesn’t just affect your ovaries. It affects your entire body. Yo
Self-Made - Kendra G

Self-Made - Kendra G

145 likes

Realizing When You Might Be The Problem 😬
If you find yourself constantly falling out with people, feeling misunderstood, or attracting the same types of conflict over and over? it might be time to pause and ask the hard question: 👀 Is it really them… or is it me? Here’s a gentle self-awareness checklist to check yourself before you
Jalin✨Feminine Journey

Jalin✨Feminine Journey

22 likes

A woman with curly hair, wearing a strapless pink dress and an earbud, reads a book in a dimly lit library. Text overlays ask 'why did he still lose her?' and introduce 'The Bookstore Introvert' from the Journal Series, reflecting the story's themes of attachment and control.
Journal: Brianna 2 of 3
Part 1: Don’t Get Attached She told me not to get attached. Then texted me like nothing happened. That message from the night before was already gone. Snapchat doesn’t leave you anything to hold on to. But I could still see it clear as day: Don’t get attached. No emoji. No expl
Kevin W. Simpson

Kevin W. Simpson

2 likes

Hard Truth: You Are the Problem.
I know that’s not an easy thing to hear. But sometimes, the truths that are hardest to accept are the ones that lead to the most growth. Let me be clear. I’m not saying other people haven’t hurt you. I’m not saying they’re blameless. But here’s the thing, when you choose not to heal you keep you
Hagan✨

Hagan✨

21 likes

You Don’t Have A Manifestation Problem. You Not Taking Action.
You don’t have a manifestation problem or motivation problem you just not taking actions. You’re not stuck… you’re just not taking action. Every day your mind gives you ideas that could change your life—but fear, overthinking, and perfectionism keep you from moving. This week, be intentional. On
Carline Menard

Carline Menard

18 likes

A phone screen displays pink notifications for various apps, with text overlayed saying "How I Turned My Notifications Pink." A cat sticker and "Swipe" are also visible.
A phone screen shows the Settings menu, with a pink arrow pointing to the "Accessibility" option, illustrating the first step to change notification colors.
A phone screen displays the Accessibility settings, with a pink arrow highlighting the "Display & Text Size" option, guiding the user to the next step.
If your notifications aren't pink,that's a problem
Harsh truth? Basic notifications are draining your joy! A pop of pink is instant serotonin. It's not just a color; it's a mood, a personality trait. Let's fix that for you right now. #PinkVibes #SerotoninBoost #JoyfulTech #ColorPsychology #LiveInPink
Lumi💖

Lumi💖

979 likes

No time? no gym? no problem! ⚡️📌❗️
#lemon8contest #AskLemon8 MY FAVORITE HOBBY: PILATES Pilates is more than a workout—it’s a lifestyle. Whether I’m stretching out stress or building core strength, it’s one of the best things I’ve ever committed to. 💬 Why people LOVE Pilates:    •   It tones your body without bulk    •
Kia Cherry0

Kia Cherry0

10 likes

Journal: Brianna 1 of 3
Part 1 — The Bookstore Meeting I met Bri in a bookstore. And somehow… that ended worse than it should have. There’s a certain kind of quiet you only find in places like that. Not silence. Not emptiness. Just… people minding their own thoughts. It’s the kind of quiet that doesn’t as
Kevin W. Simpson

Kevin W. Simpson

2 likes

A collage showing a woman's 'before' and 'after' glow-up. The 'before' images show her looking tired, overstimulated, undernourished, and underloved, while the 'after' images show her with a more vibrant appearance, including a nose piercing and styled hair.
A close-up of a woman's face, smiling slightly, with text overlay warning against taking photos off TikTok and explaining how camera beauty features can blur natural facial lines and wrinkles.
A woman with short hair and a nose piercing looks over her shoulder. Text lists her insecurities (nose hump, jawline, hair loss, over-coloring hair) and an 'insecurity hack' to pose on your 'bad side' to improve photogenic skills.
Feeling UGLY? No problem !!‼️😜 GLOW UP WITH ME🔥
Things I did to personally improve my appearance: • I got extensions and use them to frame the front of my face where I lost hair. • I got my nose pierced; since it takes up majority of my face😝 • I took months off make up to focus on skin care (highly paid off) • I changed my diet, and take
Catty Rivera 🫧🎐🌸

Catty Rivera 🫧🎐🌸

139 likes

5 MILES ADVANTAGES MOST PEOPLE IGNORE (AND WHY OTHERS WIN FASTER)
(Read this twice — this will change how you see yourself) ✨ Not everyone is ahead because they’re better… 👉 some just understand what they already have ✨ 1. MONEY 💰 It’s not just what you have… 👉 it’s how you use it 2. INTELLIGENCE & INSIGHT 🧠 Some people see opportunities… 👉 othe
Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

4 likes

Most People Don’t Have a Marketing Problem
At some point, it’s not about learning more — it’s about making better decisions with what you already know. #marketing #decisionsdecisions #decisionfatigue #learning #CONTENT
DoDigitalwithDay

DoDigitalwithDay

3 likes

Your softness was never the problem.
Somewhere along the way, your tenderness got mistaken for weakness. Your sensitivity got labeled “too much.” And your softness? It learned how to hide beneath productivity, perfection, and people-pleasing just to feel safe. But you were never the problem. You were just adapting. Lea
Stress Slayer & Calm Coach ✨🌸

Stress Slayer & Calm Coach ✨🌸

15 likes

I Thought I Was The Problem 🫣
For years, I thought I needed more discipline, more motivation, and more willpower. What I actually needed was support. Everything started changing when I stopped fighting myself and started working with myself. 😌💐💕 #AstroGawddesss #IAmBecoming #YouAreNotBroken #HealingMindset
Astro Gawddesss 🌟🧿💎💫

Astro Gawddesss 🌟🧿💎💫

55 likes

Journal: La’ Tonya 2 of 3
Chapter 1 — It’s for Jersey The house was already loud before the weekend even started. Fans humming. Grease popping. Screen door slamming. Somebody ironing church clothes in the back room. Somebody yelling for a belt they probably lost themselves. Somebody else asking who used the good alumi
Kevin W. Simpson

Kevin W. Simpson

2 likes

Big Pharma, Big Problem. Natural Medicine wins.
This is just personally why my family has gone the more natural route, seeking plant based medicine over Western medicine. I fully believe Western medicine is life-saving and has its place and time, but my family has been in better health since choosing more natural options. #naturalmedicine
AliJo

AliJo

165 likes

The root any problem
How often I hear people’s concerns about money, relationships, or work—and so often, the root of the problem is right in front of them. • Settle your debts and fulfill your promises to the universe. This is a necessary exchange of energy. Everything strives for balance, and everything wil
katelevinaart

katelevinaart

4 likes

Supplements aren't the problem
Taking a supplement and using a nutrient are two different things. Before your hair can receive nutrients, the body has to go through several steps. First, the food or supplement has to be digested. Then the nutrients have to be absorbed through the gut. Then they enter the bloodstream.
J'Nique

J'Nique

13 likes

People will pay you - Career Development
#careers #trending #wfh #career #wfhlife
Danielle Nicole

Danielle Nicole

565 likes

Other people’s opinions.. not your problem
Stay kind, give love and stay true to you. #lemon8diarychallenge #kind #love #embracevulnerability #unfiltered
Audrey F.

Audrey F.

17 likes

Your darkness isn’t the problem. Avoiding it is 🖤
You're not scared of the dark. You're scared of facing yourself when you’re in it. Breathwork has helped me in ways that therapy, strategies, and even medication haven’t. You can't just think your way out of pain. You have to feel it and breathe through it. I used to think gettin
Ania Halama | Holistic Mentor✨

Ania Halama | Holistic Mentor✨

6 likes

Histamine & ADHD: Is It An Estrogen Problem?
There’s a guide on my main hub up by my profile picture ⁠ In this guide you'll learn: ⁠ ⁠ - Why is histamine a problem in ADHD⁠ - Why are people with ADHD more susceptible to histamine problems⁠ - How to improve estrogen & histamine for a better functioning brain⁠ - Signs and Symptoms of Hi
Dr. Jolene Brighten

Dr. Jolene Brighten

4 likes

Your life isn’t the problem.Your nervous system is
Most women think they need more discipline, better routines, or more motivation… but when your nervous system is dysregulated, everything feels harder than it should. You overthink. You feel behind. You can’t relax even when nothing is wrong. That’s not a mindset issue — it’s a state you
thecozydogmom

thecozydogmom

8 likes

A collage illustrating speech-language pathology, featuring brain diagrams related to aphasia, therapy tools, anatomical illustrations of speech organs, the phrase "IN MY SLP ERA," and an infographic explaining the speech process.
Text overlayed on a colorful therapy room, detailing the roles of a speech-language pathologist, including assessing speech, language, voice, fluency, and swallowing, providing guidance, implementing therapy, and identifying communication disorders.
Text overlayed on a hospital hallway, outlining the educational requirements to become a speech-language pathologist: a bachelor's degree, a two-year master's degree, passing the Praxis Exam, and obtaining licensure and ASHA certification.
Finding Your Voice: Work of a Speech Pathologist
Becoming a speech-language pathologist (SLP) is a rewarding career choice for those passionate about helping others communicate and thrive in their daily lives. Here are some compelling reasons to pursue this path: 1. Make a Difference in Lives: SLPs help individuals overcome speech, language, an
Leonie

Leonie

53 likes

8 Reasons You Still People-Please
You understand people-pleasing. You see the pattern. You know it's hurting you. And you still say yes when you mean no. Here are 8 reasons understanding the problem didn't fix it, and what actually does. Ready for more ? https://substack.com/@sarahatgentlegrove @SarahAtGentleGr
SarahAtResourceSomatics

SarahAtResourceSomatics

5 likes

WEEK2// PROBLEM SOLVING
TOPIC: MEAN, MEDIAN & MODE It is week 2 and I’m 3 weeks ahead in assignments 🤩 I’ve been studying from 11AM-1AM MON-SUN and I’m so exhausted 😩 it’s so much material we go over just once a week for 4 hrs so I’m like in study mode teaching myself and watching videos on YouTube none stop at thi
BIGBABIIIJO😻

BIGBABIIIJO😻

19 likes

📰 THE BIG BEAUTIFUL B***** BULLETIN — EXPOSED!
💙 Join the fight. Support Anthony DeRibas for Congress — the independent voice for Florida’s working class.
Anthony DeRibas, CNH

Anthony DeRibas, CNH

1 like

A book cover for 'In a Different Voice' by Carol Gilligan, recommended for psychology and gender studies, with a 4/5 rating, alongside a cup and a book titled 'GOOD ENERGY'.
An open page from 'In a Different Voice' by Carol Gilligan, highlighting text about Freud's views on women's moral development and Nancy Chodorow's theories on gender differences.
An open book, likely 'In a Different Voice,' showing text about a woman's moral dilemma regarding pregnancy and abortion, with a hand pointing to the page.
In a Different Voice - Psychological Theory 🌸
Carol Gilligan's In a Different Voice explores the moral development of women, arguing that it follows a different path than that of men. Gilligan challenges Lawrence Kohlberg's established six-stage model, which primarily focused on male subjects, proposing that women's moral reasoning
🇵🇷

🇵🇷

7 likes

YOU aren’t the problem!🤍
Not everyone is going to appreciate what you have to give. So don’t put yourself down thinking you’re not giving enough. You and what you have to give are not the problem. There are people out there that will appreciate every little thing about you if you’d give them the chance. Don’t waste your ti
jessica.writes.✨

jessica.writes.✨

58 likes

Don't Be "Most" People
Most people assume it will "never happen to them". But most people are wrong. Alot of business owners think cyber security is an IT problem. Or something they’ll “deal with later.” Until later shows up VERY unexpectedly. I recently recorded an episode of Inspired to Invest
Serena Holmes

Serena Holmes

1 like

The Symptom Is Not the Problem—It’s the Messenger
Many people spend years trying to silence symptoms without understanding why they appeared in the first place. Symptoms are often messages from the body that something deeper needs attention. When we shift from symptom suppression to root-cause support, healing becomes a completely different journe
Holistic Healing 🌿

Holistic Healing 🌿

16 likes

Stay to hear God’s voice
#godandsunsets #christianlemon8 #christian #christiantiktok #christiancommunitylemon8
Jadyn Wells

Jadyn Wells

9 likes

When being low-maintenance becomes a problem
For years, I wore “low-maintenance” like a badge of honor. I didn’t ask for much. I didn’t “nag.” I never said when something hurt my feelings. And I thought I was loved for it—because I didn’t take up space. But here’s what I’m learning: ✦ Being chill at my own expense isn’t confidence—i
Her Blueprint

Her Blueprint

7 likes

See more