How to reply to my boss‘s flirtatious message?

I'm a 24-year-old intern at an investment bank in NYC. Last night, at a team gathering, my married male manager made me an alcoholic drink, waited with me for my Uber, and later texted me saying, 'You're really something special, you know?' He has a say in whether I get a return offer, so I don't want to upset him, but it feels off.

🤔 Am I overreacting? How should I respond?

#letschat #workplacetips #negotiationtips #conversation #Internship

2024/9/19 Edited to

... Read moreFlirting in the workplace can create complex dynamics, especially when there's a power imbalance. It's essential to assess the situation carefully. If you feel uncomfortable, documenting the interactions is crucial, as it may help you later if you need to address this behavior formally. Consider setting clear boundaries in your responses. A neutral reply, such as 'Thank you, but I prefer to keep our discussions professional,' can signal that you're not interested in a personal relationship. Furthermore, consulting with a trusted colleague or HR could provide additional insights and support. Remember, your comfort and professionalism are paramount. If the behavior escalates or crosses professional lines, it may be necessary to involve HR, as they can provide guidance on the company's policies regarding workplace behavior. Trust your instincts and prioritize your well-being as you navigate this challenging situation.

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I actually like the idea of keeping a record of everything. You can NEVER be too safe. Do not be afraid to speak up, no matter the consequences.

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Zirconlil

You are not overreacting. It is really creepy, and I would not be surprised if he ended up escalating things definitely keep a record of this.

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