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I'm trying to tell her this but she doesn't care..

Okay, so my bestie’s dating this dude who’s super religious. He talks about God all the time and treats her like crap. Like, last week, she wanted to go see a movie with me but he got all pissy cause “people don’t hang out on Saturdays like that.” Then he made her cancel on me.

And he talks down to her every freaking time. He’ll be like “A good girl would cook dinner every night” or “You should dress more modestly, people are staring.” She’s out here thinking he’s “godly” so he must be a good partner, but nah. Dude’s controlling as hell, and she’s too caught up in “he’s religious, so he’s a good guy” to see it.

I’ve tried telling her that religion don’t make someone nice but she just can't understand. It’s so frustrating cause I just want her to be happy not stuck with a guy who uses faith to boss her around.

#Letschat #Asklemon8 #Stirthepot #RedFlags

2025/9/28 Edited to

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Bbyabby💋🌻

He’s not Godly, he’s just using his religion to try to control her. Tell her to tell him she wants to wait for marriage and see how long he keeps using religion to justify his actions.

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