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Ask for a way to say less bad words.

Hello, Lemon people, we have something to ask for a consultation. Anyone who has a way to do less rude words and words that sometimes play with older people to talk less can suggest. Can recommend to improve yourself about the use of words. Sometimes, know that some words other people do not think anything. But when we say it, we are not comfortable, may seem to joke. But if they understand that we are true, they will not be wrong, can not work together or they do not want to talk to us again, so would like to ask for the way of each person, we will bring to improve ourselves to be better. I don't want to be seen as rude, without honor, or without respect for others.

Thank you for all the advice. 🙏🙏

Please leave polite comments.# Rude words # Can talk to each other

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