To the world we are busy, to our kids we are simply “mum”!

Being a working parent often feels like running a marathon with no finish line in sight. I’ve found that amidst the hectic schedule—racing from work meetings to school runs and managing household tasks—it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and spread too thin. However, what truly keeps me going is remembering that to my children, I am not their busy professional or the stressed-out multitasker, but simply ‘mum.’ In those quiet moments when a child reaches out for comfort because they’re tired or upset, or when they excitedly share their day, I’m reminded that these interactions are the foundation of their childhood memories. They don’t remember the deadlines or the meetings; they remember the hugs, the smiles, and the reassurance that I am present. One strategy that has helped me manage the chaos is prioritizing quality over quantity of time. Even short moments spent fully engaged with my kids—whether reading a bedtime story, sharing a meal, or playing together—are priceless to them and grounding for me. It also helps to openly communicate with my family about my work commitments so they understand and support me, which strengthens our bond. Counting down to school holidays brings an added sense of anticipation—not just for a break from routine, but for undistracted time with my children. These breaks offer a chance to recharge, connect, and create joyful memories without the usual rush. For fellow working parents, it’s important to embrace the dual identity of being productive professionals and loving caregivers. The balance may never be perfect, but the love and presence we offer during our children’s formative years is what truly matters. These moments, often fleeting and simple, become the cherished tapestry of a happy childhood.