THINGS IM DOING IN MY SOFT GIRL ERA

I’m continuously in my “Soft Girl Era” and always finding ways to upgrade and simplify my life.

These are some things I have been doing for a few years now…..

-Sleeping on satin pillow cases: improved my hair and skin tremendously.

-Drinking herbal teas at night/morning: peppermint and spearmint tea have benefited in my quality of sleep. Lemon ginger tea in the AM has help with my boost in energy and bloating.

-Listening to jazz music: Calms my mind and keeps me in my feminine energy.

-A full “Self Care” day weekly has help me to recharge and feel my best throughout the week.

-Taking Maca Root: boosts my energy and helps to maintain my curves during my fitness journey.

-Using a sleep spray before bed: Helps me to wind down and get peaceful uninterrupted sleep.

2024/5/3 Edited to

... Read moreYou know that dreamy, gentle vibe of the Soft Girl Era? For me, it’s absolutely incomplete without the magic of flowers! While my daily routine includes things like satin pillowcases and calming herbal teas, I've found that incorporating beautiful blooms into my space and life truly amplifies that soft, serene aesthetic we all love. It’s not just about pretty decor; it’s about creating an atmosphere that nurtures your soul. I’ve personally discovered that certain types of flowers just scream 'soft girl aesthetic.' Think delicate pastels – soft pink, peach, and white rose bouquets are my absolute go-to. They exude a gentle elegance that perfectly complements the era's focus on femininity and grace. Beyond roses, I adore the lushness of peonies when they’re in season, the airy fluffiness of hydrangeas, and even the subtle charm of baby's breath. These aren't just flowers; they're mood boosters and visual affirmations of a peaceful lifestyle. So, how do I weave them into my everyday soft girl routine? It’s surprisingly simple and incredibly rewarding! Firstly, home decor is where flowers truly shine. A small vase with a fresh bouquet on my bedside table instantly transforms my bedroom into a tranquil sanctuary, perfect for winding down with my sleep spray. I often choose a little cluster of white roses for this spot. For my self-care Sundays, having a larger arrangement on my coffee table or in the bathroom makes the whole experience feel like a luxurious spa day. It’s all about creating those pockets of beauty that make you feel cherished in your own home. Beyond just placing them in vases, I love to get a bit creative. During my weekly self-care bath (you know, the one where I really recharge!), I'll often sprinkle some peach rose petals into the water. The scent and the visual beauty are incredibly relaxing and make the bath feel so much more intentional and luxurious. It’s a tiny detail that makes a huge difference in my overall well-being. And it doesn't stop at just fresh flowers! I've been experimenting with dried flowers for a more sustainable approach. A small dried lavender bouquet on my desk adds a calming aroma, especially when I’m listening to my jazz music. You can even press delicate petals from your favorite blooms to create beautiful bookmarks or framed art. It’s a lovely way to preserve the beauty and keep that soft girl energy flowing. Sometimes, I'll even incorporate flowers into my personal style. A tiny fresh blossom tucked into my hair for an afternoon outing, or a delicate floral print scarf, can instantly elevate my look and make me feel more connected to that gentle, feminine energy. For those who enjoy a bit of DIY, consider making your own floral teas. While I love my pre-made peppermint and lemon ginger teas, steeping edible rosebuds or chamomile flowers can add another layer of sensory delight to your tea-drinking ritual. It's a wonderful way to connect with nature and enjoy a mindful moment. Keeping your flowers fresh is also part of the soft girl aesthetic – it shows you care for the beauty around you. I always trim the stems at an angle, remove any leaves below the waterline, and change the water every day. A little flower food helps too! Embracing the soft girl era is about intentional living and surrounding yourself with beauty that uplifts you. For me, flowers are an irreplaceable element in crafting that aesthetic – they bring joy, serenity, and a touch of natural elegance into every corner of my life. Hope these tips inspire you to add more floral magic to your soft girl journey too!

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