Campus Junior Life
Vulnerability
🤍 My Story: Going to college was something that so always wanted to do. I know many people that were forced and honesty I truly believe college is not for everyone and that is okay.
🤍 Decide for yourself, do research and figure out if spending a shit ton of money is what you want or what others want
Building on my initial thoughts about college, I really want to dive deeper into that crucial decision-making process. It’s so easy to feel swept up in the current, especially when everyone around you seems to be following a certain path to "campus life." But truly, this is your journey, and it deserves careful thought. When I mentioned doing your research, I wasn't just talking about glancing at university websites. I mean getting down to the nitty-gritty. Think about the specific programs you're interested in – what are the career prospects for graduates? What's the actual day-to-day curriculum like? Try to connect with current students or alumni in those fields. Their insights can be gold. I also found it super helpful to visit campuses, even if just virtually, to get a feel for the environment. Will you thrive in a bustling city university, or would a smaller, more intimate setting be better for your learning style and well-being? Then there’s the big elephant in the room: the cost. "Spending a shit ton of money" is an understatement for many! Beyond tuition fees, remember to factor in living expenses, books, technology, and personal spending. Look into every possible avenue for financial aid – scholarships, grants, work-study programs. Don't just accept the first loan offer; understand interest rates and repayment plans. For me, seeing the full financial picture really helped me weigh the investment against the potential return. Is this degree going to open doors that justify the debt? Or are there more cost-effective ways to achieve my goals? And let's talk about the pressure from "what others want." This was a huge one for me. Friends, family, even society at large can create this expectation that college is the only path to success. It takes a lot of vulnerability to step back and honestly ask yourself if that aligns with your personal aspirations. Maybe a trade school offers a direct path to a high-demand career you're passionate about. Perhaps a gap year traveling or working could give you clarity on what you truly want to pursue. Starting a small business or taking online courses can also be incredibly valuable ways to gain skills and experience without the traditional university structure. Ultimately, the goal isn't just to get a degree; it's to build a life that feels authentic and fulfilling to *you*. So, take your time, ask the hard questions, and don't be afraid to forge your own path, even if it looks different from everyone else's. Your college decision, or lack thereof, should empower you, not burden you. Remember, a successful campus life, or a successful life without traditional campus life, is defined by what brings you joy and purpose.



























































































































